he's starting to scare me. And i'm always avoiding him now, and i'm scared to be alone with him. What's up with that??? i used to love hanging out with him. What should i do????
2006-08-15 13:31:47 · 18 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(he's one of the three in case anyone was wondering)
2006-08-15 13:50:01 · update #1
Follow your instincts. Stalking is not nice or cool, it could turn into something dangerous. The best way to get rid of a stalker is to totally ignore him. Don't take his calls, just avoid him and definitely don't be alone with him.
2006-08-15 13:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some reason why suddenly you're scared of him. Please tell him. Don't be alone with him. Tell your parents or whomever you live with, too. I just recently had this experience and I was very afraid and did not know what to do either.
2006-08-15 20:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM! you have to telll the guy what your thoughts are...he might think you are into him and all that but if you tell him what is on your mind then he will probably just leave you alone. You have the power to change this you just have to be honest with him.
2006-08-15 20:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you just want o be friends be clear about that if e still pursues you tell a guy friend or brother whats going on going to the cops wont hurt either get a restraining order
2006-08-15 20:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a 4th guy or one of the 3?
2006-08-15 20:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by descartesprotege 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take ur time.. get to know him more. test him. If still you are not confident enough then do not be alone with him.... Also, do not drink together on a romantic night either
2006-08-15 20:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Galactic_Explorer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start hanging out more with groups and if u see him tell him to give u some space see if it works if not tell the parents
2006-08-15 20:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by d1c80r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and if he says he likes u tell him u r not intrested. Do it with someone around the corner just in case he tries to do something.
2006-08-15 20:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by gg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk openly with him and if he doesnt stop then end the friendship completely. This isnt normal and could be dangerous
2006-08-15 20:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by I_would_have_to_say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
APPARENTLY YOUR FEELING THREATENED. HAS HE BEEN FOLLOWING YOU OR SHOWING UP UNINVITED SOMEWHERE? DO YOU TRAVEL IN A GROUP? IF YOU DO, MAYBE ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS COULD TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL IF IT'S TOO UNCOMFORTABLE FOR YOU TO DO. IF YOU FEEL THAT AFRAID OF HIM, BE CAREFUL. GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING AND DON'T TAKE ANY CHANCES. IT MAY COME TO CONTACTING YOUR LAW ENFORCEMENT AGENCY TO INTERVENE. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-15 20:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by popcopgoldieoldie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋