Its not that I'm gay, or not into sex. That isn't the case at all. I am just Old-fashioned italian guy that actually has some morals and is into finding something real instead of playing the tail chase game at the bar scene. I am confident in myself and my looks, and have no problem talking with women at all. I just don't really seem to click with girls like I did when i was 18-19. Have I grown boring, without realizing it? I consider myself funny, nice and caring, but im also really good at giving a girl a hard time. Im not the guy that complains about the nice guy always finishing last, and im not the asshole that sees how many names he can add to his blackbook. Without going to bars or outrageous nightclubs, whats a good way to meet new people for both friendship and love?
2006-08-15 13:10:12 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like the old fashioned types...not many around...you could meet interesting women at cooking classes ,salsa dancing or even language classes
2006-08-15 13:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I have like five friends (and 2 daughters) I want to fix you up with right now. Just try not to lose faith. You must just be frustrated with the results you've been getting because you are the genuine article. You don't sound boring to me, just mature. Maybe you'll meet somebody at work or at a sporting event or some kind of place people hang out that isn't a bar (like a Barnes and Noble Bookstore or a coffee shop or something). Good luck.
2006-08-15 13:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join some clubs that attract more women than men. Yoga classes. after 5pm classes or wine tasting groups. look for up scale stuff, just for fun.
Stop being sarcastic toward women, they dislike this more than anything, they are done with it, unless you are dating 18-20 year olds.
If you show people that you give a dam, they will too. If you act cocky then don't expect people to want to be around you at all.
2006-08-15 13:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any friends who might know some nice women you would click with? Do you go to church? Sometimes women take guys who are sarcastic the wrong way....I should introduce you to my friend. She loves giving guys a hard time and when you can toss out the insults as fast as she can then you are definitely one she will keep around....
2006-08-15 13:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard love. you will find people worthy or friendship and love when you stop tryin so hard, you don't have to ask questions or wonder, people are people, you just have to pick and choose those you want in your circle. Forget what others say and think, its not about them its about you. Learn to love your self and your values and what matters to you most, you are not your friends, you are not your family, you are only you amongst many, embrace it and move on. You;ll find what your looking for or maybe you have already and hadn't noticed.
2006-08-15 13:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobbie or a club. If you play poker go to casinos. Try to get into a book club. Maybe a club that does stuff outdoors. Try dancing lessons or cooking lessons. Then you start as friends not as a hook up
2006-08-15 13:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to a local coffee shop or bookstore. That seems to be places in which intelligent people who aren't into the party scene go...
2006-08-15 13:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my last bf at the grocery store and the mall is a good place too.
2006-08-15 13:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by sMpLy_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you'll be perfect for my gorgeous Italian Friend who constantly ask where are the good men hiding??!! =P
2006-08-15 13:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by Beachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mutual friends. That way you can get an idea of what sort of girl you're getting involved with.
2006-08-15 13:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋