What makes a GREAT kiss? How can you become a better kisser?

Question

I know that when i first got a boyfriend he had previuosly had like 11 other girlfriends and he was my first... How can you become a better kisser?

Answer 1

Hi..
The best way to learn, is to find someone who's good at it and get him to teach you.... As with all things sensual, pay as much attention to technique as you can (without getting distracted from the kiss itself).... Think about how the other person uses his tongue, what parts of your mouth he gives attention to, and whether he pauses periodically or just keep going....
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The next best thing : to practicing with one good kisser (or possibly as good).. is to kiss a lot of different people, and see what works or doesn't work. It's not slutty when it's in the name of science!:)
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Failing that, here are some general tips:
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Keep lip moisture to a medium... If your lips are dry, lick them. (If his lips are dry, lick them too, if he's patient enough to let you.) If yours are too wet, take a minute to kiss his cheek, ear, neck, etc... and then come back to his lips... If his are too wet, you can cup his face in your hands.. and surreptitiously dab at the excess with your thumbs..
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Pay attention, of course... If he keeps pushing forward, he's looking for a deeper or more continuous kiss... You can tease a little bit by pulling away, but make sure it's only teasing and not frustrating by coming back... and giving him what he wants eventually. If he's pulling away, let him catch his breath...
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Explore.... When you focus on such a small area as the mouth, you notice the variety of the things you can do with it... Pick a lip and nibble or suck on it (gently!;) .. Both of those can hurt if done too much.)... Spend some time lightly licking (see moisture note) and dotting kisses on the surface of his lips... before going back to a deep kiss : variety excites the nerves more, and if you keep it up long enough, he'll be longing for more..
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Take it slow.... Unless this is an "I want to screw you right now" or "I haven't seen you in a year and boy did I miss you" kiss, you've probably got some time on your hands.... Relax, and enjoy yourself.... If you love what you're doing, it'll show... ;)
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I hope, this helps!;))
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My regards!;)

Answer 2

PRACTICE

Answer 3

1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck 2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa. 3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides. 4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses. 5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood. 6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else. 7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips. 8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion. 9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing. 10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that. 11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue. 12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite. 13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through. 14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose. 15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain. 16. Continue kissing.

Answer 4

Practice.

Answer 5

first of alli think you should dump him if he had a whole cheerleading team behind you . but anyways what makes a great is with your actual true love you'll know it when he kisses you and all youfeel is full passion.

Answer 6

With experience and its just something you gotta have like naturally, because no one likes the same kiss...

Answer 7

Know when to breathe, don't be slobbery, but not too reserved either.

Answer 8

uh,..thanks for the points but i think all these answers are right,...practice and do what cc said.

Answer 9

by staying with him and practicing.

Answer 10

wow

Answer 11

not slobbery!! gross!! umm,.,., yeah practice!!