They're all pretty good friends with me, but they're all different. One is older than me. He's cool, he drives, he's good with advice giving (except in this case of course) and he's super nice to me. One is the same age as me. Doesn't like to show it, but he cares a lot about me, and wants to protect me all the time. And the last one is younger than me by like 1 and 1/2 years. He's taller than me, and everyone thinks he's older than me. He also cares about me a lot, but he likes to show it, and he loves hanging out with me. And they're all starting to hate each other. What do i do???
2006-08-15 12:57:55 · 31 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chose none of them. Be friends only. It will only cause problems. Tell them all its friends or nothing. Then you will see if they are truly your friend or just trying to get in your pants. There are plenty of guys out there find one not in your circle.
2006-08-15 13:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when do *THEY* have the right to tell you what to do with your life?! You are not required to choose one of them. In fact, I would advise you tell them that you are refusing to move into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with any of them, because right now their competition for your affection is straining your relationships with them as friends, and you're not willing to destroy two friendships (possibly three if the romance doesn't work out!) just because they feel the asinine need to find out who's the "alpha male".
2006-08-15 13:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww that is so sweet. But you got it bad. All of them seem very nice. I guess you just have to think about who is there for you the most, and who will you be the most happiest with. I like all of them (for you) but the youngest one seems the most sweet. Good luck girl. I'm here for you if you need more advice.
2006-08-15 13:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like one of them more than the other? Or do you see them all as just good friends? If so, sit them all down and tell them that. Tell them you refuse to choose (and you should NOT have to!) and if they can't accept that and be mature about it, then you don't want to have anything ot do with any of them. I wouldn't put up with that. It's emotional manipulation; refuse to choose, honey. You'll know who your true friends are by who smartens up and who walks away.
2006-08-15 13:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't chose one.Try to tell them to CALME DOWN. They really need to relax.Think about it. But don't chose.Guess what some girls ae jealous of you, because you have a lot guy friends who is interested in you.You know how I know that some are jealous of you? It's because there's a girl on my school and alot guys likes her.And most of my friends are jealous of her.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 13:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to have a bunch of strangers on the internet tell you what to do? Pick one or dump all three already.
2006-08-15 13:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing you can do is get rid of all three you pick one of three the other two want ever be happy you will never get no peace quit while you're behind.
2006-08-15 13:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girl's guy friends like them, yours are just more open about it. You seem to love the attention so I would recommend that you just keep things the way they are now.
2006-08-15 13:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to act like whore you may as well charge them for the honor of screwing you. Make lots of money as you watch them fight like rams for your affections, then dump them all and start collecting welfare checks for you fatherless whelps.
Smart, yes? Good little skankpig!
2006-08-15 13:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Smarty Pants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you should pick the one you feel is right for you and to me it sounds like the younger one is what you should go for
2006-08-15 13:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by In love with life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋