I'm currently dating a man who lost his wife a couple of years ago. (suicide) While I've been growing closer and closer to him, there are still many times he seems very sad. I fear he may still be in love with her. If so do we have a future? Do I ask him about his? I'm worried that he'll never be over her. Is it possible to fall in love with one person if you've never fallen out of love with another?
2006-08-15 12:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how he feels. I lost mine in a boating accident. It's all the same. It will just take him some time.
You can be the gift to him from God. You can't rush him falling in love. You need to smile, show him love, tell him how much you truly love him, and most of all, when he looks sad, you need to say, "I know you miss her". Tell him that's it will all be fine, and you are here, not to replace what was lost, to remind him how precious that our time here on earth is.
2006-08-15 13:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there its not a good idea to settle with a guy whose wife committed suicide because maybe the reason of wife's suicide was his husband himself, also I am not sure the guy is really geniune or not he will just show himself sad to get favours from you.
We also need to know your status of relationship with this guy,You need to find out the exact status to make sure the guy is really worth of all your support&love.
It is very difficult to be in love with 2people at the same time its practically impossible,I think love happens only once.
2006-08-16 03:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now be true to him,speak to him, giving him his lost luv,replace u r self of his unrecoverable loss,now u r his new gain but remember u r to make him forget what he has lost,it will take time ,be patience.
2006-08-15 21:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by dulla99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time to make up his mind - may be he sees his wife in you ...
2006-08-18 06:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-16 07:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by BASAVA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused. If you are sincere in your efforts, success will be there for your endeavours narrated.
2006-08-19 01:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait & watch
2006-08-19 07:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋