I don't want to bug her...but I just don't like uncertainty. We have gone out a few times but just as friends.
2006-08-15 12:47:44 · 8 answers · asked by inky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have gone out a couple of times as friends since the first week of June. I don't like uncertainty so I don't know if I should ask her again or not or ask her if she has gotten to know me.
2006-08-15 12:57:50 · update #1
OK bud, remember this once an for all...NEVER ask a girl to be your girlfriend. Why? Because if YOU have to ask, ,she's not ready. You'll know she's ready when SHE starts bringing it up. The answer to your question is NO. Do not ask her about being your girlfriend again. You will come accross as desperate and begging and NO HEALTY WOMAN likes a man who begs and is desperate. Before I give you further advice, I need to know how old you are so that I can better advise you on what to do. Let me know and I'll follow up with what the best course of action will be .
2006-08-15 13:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely do not bring it up again. You don't want to pressure her, or sound desperate. If she wants to get to know you better, then let her, and she'll bring it up on her own if she's interested. If she's taking too long, you might want to consider moving on, cuz that may mean she's not interested in that way.
2006-08-15 13:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep asking her out give her time to like the real you and get to know you more then ask her if she will be your girlfriend.
2006-08-15 12:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants to stay friends for a while. Don't bug her too much or you'll push her away.
2006-08-15 12:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you two have talked and got to know each other better, then ask again.
2006-08-15 12:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Calamity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, don't bug her. She's either not sure and needs more time, or, as the book says, she's just not that into you.
2006-08-15 12:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into a hole boyfriend girlfriend thing ask her on a date first
2006-08-15 12:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to get to know u better, you keep buging and she will prob tell u to hit the road!
2006-08-15 12:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by fox69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋