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So there is this girl at starbucks. Usually we have been playing this eye tag where we stare at each other and when we look at each other we do this weird look away where we pretend to be looking at weird stuff. LOL anyways today I stayed at starbucks to study I have a big test coming up soon so I really didn't have time to talk with her while she was working. So When she was leaving she had to walk by me to the door and she said bye only to me. Should I chill there and try to get to talk to her? Or should I just forget it?? Also how should i approach her she is hella busy when she is working, whats the best way to do this? Also there might be an issue she looks young maybe 19 or 20, I am 23, you think that is weird? Please advise

2006-08-15 12:39:54 · 21 answers · asked by sgi h 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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give her a single red rose with your name & number on the card, don't say another word just hand it to her, smile and walk away, her heart will be fluttering for the rest of the day if she is interested and she won't be able to resist calling you.

2006-08-15 12:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't think the age thing is a problem. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 23 and that has never been an issue for us. Personally I think you should continue to chill out at Starbucks and try to get to know the girl. Perhaps as a friend first? That way, if the age does turn out to be an issue for her, or if she's not interested in a relationship then you can still be friends. Good Luck.

2006-08-15 12:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If she is 19 or 20 and you are 23 there really is no age concern there! I think your best bet is to be forthright and just tell her you'd like to share a cup of coffee with her and talk a bit to get to know her better. Maybe you could even ask her to dinner. If you really like this girl then what I would do Is send a dozen roses to her at work with a note attatched saying "Thank you for brightening my days . . . your smile is a great pick me up. . . . . your secret admirer". Good Luck!

2006-08-15 12:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I wouldn't approach her when she's busy, that's not a good first move. Approach her when business is a little light. Make a comment about her hair or something cheesie like that. 19 or 20 isn't too young for a 23 yr old. Dude, go for it!! Good luck!

2006-08-15 12:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Supa M 2 · 0 0

It depends. Is she looking at you in a GOOD way or in a way that says, "Ew why is he looking at me?"

if it's the first one, then maybe you should hang around and strike up a conversation with her- see if you like her personality and all that. If all goes well, then you should ask her out. If not, you can leave and never go to that particular starbucks again.

2006-08-15 12:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Darko 3 · 0 0

Nah thats sweet! I'd say if she's the barista or if you actually talk to her (like taking an order or something) Just start making light conversation. Ask her if she drinks a hell of a lot of coffee there or if she gets sick of the music. Just keep it light for now. Sounds like she's interested.

2006-08-15 12:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by socalgrrrl05 3 · 0 0

sounds like a great start. play it cool. you are already a familiar face. try saying "hi" once or ask some Starbucks related question as a means of starting a conversation. good luck

2006-08-15 12:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by dimbulb52 3 · 0 0

She's probably 17 working at starbucks after school.

2006-08-15 12:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by lookingforadicksuckinglady 1 · 0 0

Oh my God, good looking nice girls are always hit on by guys so if you want a date you can't screw around on the internet, just ask her where she goes when she gets tired of coffee, then tell her where you go and ask her out for gods sake!

2006-08-15 12:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Dude. Walk up there, order your usual, and ask her when she goes on break. Offer to buy her a cup of coffee (its a joke). :) Don't pass her a note. That is retarded. Time to Man up. Take it from there.

2006-08-15 13:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by requiem42 2 · 0 0

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