well i really like this guy, and he says he likes me back but he says that his gf is being SOOO nice to him he's afraid to break up with her......(that he might hurt her fellings)....what should i do? i really like him but i dont feel like dealing with this crap anymore!!!!! so plzz help me.
2006-08-15 12:30:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
!!!ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK!!!
it sucks but its the truth, i have 2 answers:
1. don't do it because you'll be compromising yourself just to be in second place and if you're gonna get with someone make sure they're all about you first.
2. (if this does not describe your personality don't use this advise) its time to step your game up whatever she ain't doing you gotta do and you gotta do it damn good whether it is cooking,cleaning,tending to the kids,in the bedroom, etc. its all about how you handle your business
2006-08-15 12:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by cute2bemeok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I dont think that u should wait for him. If he really likes u like he say he do then, he would be with u. His gf being too nice has nothing to do with it, its just an excuse..Move on. Im sure that theres someone out there waiting for u just like ur wasting ur time waiting for him.
2006-08-15 12:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Boogie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is very hard to leave a gf or bf and much more if you were dating several years...what you should know is that is ok but for a period of time...not all the time
if he wants to be with you he will have to choose you..dont make him the easy way...but dont push him to make a decition cause that makes the opposite efect in a guy
you have to stop calling him and paying attention to him but let him him know that you would love to be with him BUT that you have other choices too!
2006-08-15 12:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your hurting in the process too and that because you love him so much, your giving him a space... enough time to think things over of whom do he really wants to stay with.. and who's he's rather see in pain...
2006-08-15 12:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser. If he can't decide is because he does not love you. He is thinking about which one of you will he be better of with, nothing to do with love. I say again, dump the loser.
PS. Got nothing to do with hurting the other girl's feelings.
2006-08-15 12:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ψ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he liked you that much; he would leave his girlfriend. Apparently, he's having his cake & eating too basically that he's staying with her but is still talking to you and having you catch feelings.
I think you should stop talking to him because if you were worth it to him, he wouldn't be with her & imagine he does the same to you later in life.
2006-08-15 12:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have no self-respect your only choice is to wait for him like a pathetic puppy. Maybe once the other girl is done you can have her leftovers.
2006-08-15 12:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like either like a coward or a jerk. Tell him he can't have his cake and eat it too. If you want to be with him, wait until he is TOTALLY single. Even then, I would think twice if I was you.
2006-08-15 12:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Erin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what i think you should move on cause he is toooo sweet to break up with her. So bide your time and pray that somthing happens.
2006-08-15 12:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by sarah m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd truthfully move on...he's NOT gonna break up with her...and you could be missing the right guy and not even realize it...
2006-08-15 12:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋