Love or lust? I have been talking to a friend about which is more important to people so I was just asking to see what the real answer is.
2006-08-15 12:28:35 · 8 answers · asked by Beverly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best answer to this question is answered with a question it self.
What is it your looking for at the time, are you looking for someone hold and be held by, or are you looking for someone to swap bodily fluids with?
Answer that and you answer is love or lust that is most important at that time.....Time changes and so should you.
2006-08-15 12:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by scotdic 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi..
You can actually have both, at the same time (obviously a fantastic relationship)...
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There are actually : three stages of falling in love..
Stage 1 – lust
Stage 2 - the soppy bit and
Stage 3 - the attachment stage (being in love)
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When people first meet, and they go through the "lust" stage, it tends to be full on and couples make an effort to be really romantic, but just can’t keep their hands off each other ...it’s new and therefore, exciting... ;)
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Sad to say, but many couples end up falling at the second hurdle, as they discover whether they are really compatible after the "lust" part of the relationship.... Most aren’t, but then you get top run over the exciting "lust" stage again.. when you meet someone new....
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Then you get the couples.. that go the distance and devote their lives to each other.... This is when you experience true love.... ;)
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There is no timescale to these stages... and they can all vary based on what sort of people you are.... Almost everyone goes through these stages, and the truth is that if you end up being ‘in love’ then you have done really well.... ;))
That is my opinion!;)
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I hope, this helps!
My regards!;).. and good luck!;)
2006-08-15 17:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other guy, what's important to you is what is going to lead to what you want at the time. Unfortunately both love and lust seem to be in the moment-type events.
2006-08-15 12:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously love, lust has no importance.
2006-08-15 12:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust leads to love
2006-08-15 12:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
lust for short term , love for long term *hopefully*
2006-08-15 12:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by happie_julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love
2006-08-15 12:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love....
2006-08-15 12:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by Angel to da rescue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋