how do you know if a girl is in your league or not?

Question

you you just have to ask girls out, untill you get a yes, then you know what your league is, or is there an easier way.

Comments, answeres, helpfull hints. or encouraging words.

Answer 1

You have the wrong mindset. You should be thinking if they are good enough for you before you ask them out.

Answer 2

Why even ask yourself this question? Without even thinking for a moment on that issue, walk up say hello and offer to shake her hand. Remember, a warm sincere smile is worth a lot. Life is about making friends and developing great relationships as friends. Only the relationships based on a great friendship will actually last. All other meetings can be just rolled up as extended one night stands. It's your choice.

Answer 3

Don't worry if someone is in your "league " or not. If you see some one you'd like to go out with just ask her. More important is if you have things in common, same beliefs, same views, and are there any sparks, electricity, between you? Mostly women like men with a sense of humor, but not over board. I met a guy who made me laugh like crazy, and then he asked me out, and I just couldn't get serious with someone who made me laugh that much. Women want guys who are both strong, and gentle. We discussed this at work one day, a guy asking what we (women) want. We all said a chocolate chip cookie. He just couldn't get the connection, and said we were stupid, but we all knew what we meant. Consider this: the perfect chocolate chip cookie is not so hard that you cant enjoy it, not so soft that it crumbles, You want one that's sweet and warm, and firm, but not overly sweet, or overly firm. We want one that's just right! Any way, I hope you get it. and I hope this helps you.

Answer 4

a girl is "in your league" if u guys have a similar style, tastes, friends. If you guys have mutual friends, she is most likely in ur league. Education, looks, social class are also taken into account.

Like, if shez a student at Harvard, and you go to a community college, she is out of ur league. But if she goest to harvard.. and u go to say... yale or brown or whatever ivy.. then shez in ur league.

If shez very attractive and you look like an ogre, shez out of ur league. if u guys are about the same level of attractiveness, then she may be in ur league

Answer 5

Be yourself and show who you are if you are interested in her. If she is interested in you, you will feel a connection and can see where it goes from there. If not, don't stress on it and move on to the next person you feel attracted to and you will eventually find the person who has been looking for someone just like you. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is posing as someone you are not just to try an impress someone.

Answer 6

No woman is out of your league.
Do not put that kind of pressure on yourself.
My friends always wonder how I end up with the beautiful women that I have been with my entire life. It all has to do with how you carry yourself,have confidence in yourself and make a woman laugh.Never be overly physical when you meet a woman,respect her personal space.look in her eyes when she is talking and acknowledge what she is saying with a nod of the head.

Answer 7

let me make this is easy for u , look at urself in the mirror r u cute,hot,ugly or wat look at the girl is she cute hot or ugly...lol ........im just kidding ok well u need to know people b4 u kno if u r in their league they may be nice but still hot and like u evn if u r ugly just because of who u r but there r some girls that just think they r the hottest thing ever so u really never kno u just have to get to kno people .....sry if this is way way confusing

Answer 8

If you talk to her and she either
a- brushes you off
b- is not all interested in the conversation

Then you are going to get nowehere

Answer 9

I don't believe in leagues or aliens.

Answer 10

there is no league. just different people and interests.