I have never had a good date, or a second date with anyone I ever went out with. Maybe I am simply not a dateable woman, and some people are meant to be alone. What should I do about this, if anything? P.S. I am not pretty.
2006-08-15 12:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by Newcomer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-15 12:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by chet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are selling yourself short. Walk down the street. Look at all the women you see. Do you see anyone who looks like a movie star? (If you happen to live in Hollywood...disregard this question)
Although most men fantasize about "the perfect woman" in all reality, most won't achieve that dream. Why? Well, there simply aren't that many perfect women around. Most women these days are normal and average and pretty in their own way. I'm sure you fit the description of a "normal" woman.
You are just having bad streak. Don't worry. If you don't want to date for a while, well that's fine. But don't discount dating completely. When you are least expecting it the right man will come along and you will find what your are looking for without even trying. Be patient!
2006-08-15 19:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hon, beauty is in the hands of the beholder himself. Don't let that stop you from thinking your not a good enough person to date. People need to look at the inner soul of beauty also. Sometimes when we are a beautiful person inside can make up for the outside look. Thats why they say never judge a book by its cover. Don't give up until you feel its something later in life that you would absolutely would want to do. If you are young, heck enjoy life, just live it , love will come to you if its meant to be.. Good Luck Kid!
2006-08-15 19:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have wondered the same thing myself. I am an adult man that has very few successful dates. I am not bad looking. And I don't think i am unfriendly. I just think I don't fit into the modern world well. No cell phone, not a successful productive type "A" career person, etc. I am probably quirky or eccentrc. My sense of humor is odd. And I am OK with that. So maybe that is it. Maybe you are eccentric. And if you are, I wouldn't worry about it. In time, you will find that right person. Patience is key.
2006-08-15 19:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by cannonball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, here goes nothing. First off, self confidence says a lot about a person. If you display yourself to people as an old rag, dirty smelly and all worn out... peoples reaction is going to be about the same....EWW! But if you keep a positive outlook, smile, take care of yourself.... then people will notice you. Now not everyone is going to have people just line up at their door, trust me, I know! Plus, maybe spending more time knowing who you are...what you represent, and what you stand for in life could make you happier in the long run, I know it has helped me with the whole outlook on life. Remember, chin up, slap a smile on that face...feel the sun on your face and fly high... enjoy life for what it has to offer.
2006-08-15 19:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by chevy4x4man72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get pretty. There is always something you can do to "enhance" your natural beauty.
DON'T GIVE UP ON YOURSELF or your chance at love.
Don't be a victim,
don't give into your negative haunting thoughts of spending your life alone.
Let's see what we can do to improve our situation.
Let's start with your skin. How is your face? What is your best feature? What one feature do you always receive compliments on?
Do you have an answer?
Okay now what can we do to enhance it? Is it your eyes? Let's define them with eyeliner.
Is it your lips? Lets line and define and fill in with a lipstick and a little lip gloss in the center of your bottom lip to give you a sexy pouty look! Ooh la la!
Can you see there is hope for you already?
Okay now how is your hair?
When is the last time you received a compliment on your hair?
If it's been more than 2 months since you've had a compliment its time for a change.
Let's perm it, straighten it, cut it, texturize it, color it, highlight it....you get the picture.
Okay how is your body? Do you love it? What 1 thing don't you love about it?
Let's work on it.
You see sweetie...you always have OPTIONS! Always!
Now get over your pity party and call the best salon in town!
YOU'RE WORTH IT!
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Good luck! You're are a daughter of our Heavenly Father and he didn't have time to make junk...he just didn't...so make the best out of what he gave you and don't look back! You're great :)
2006-08-15 19:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always someone for everybody! Dating is tough! Two people thrown together at a moments notice!
Hey - give it time! When you least expect it, a wonderful person will come into your life. AND - quit coming down on yourself! Everyone is beautiful!
2006-08-15 19:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no it may be hard because i just got out of a bad relashonship also but weve been dating for over a year on and off..its a bummer~ but anyways you shouldnt give up becasue u need to find that someone who likes you for who u are not for ur looks( and like u said u dont think you are pretty but i believe everyone has to be pretty in their own way so dont give up)
ps.
i no it may be hard but keep trying
email me if any more problems or questions or just to tlk
2006-08-15 19:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by *miss. understandable* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not.
How are you meeting these bad date guys? Maybe you should try finding guys a different way.
You only need a good relationship with ONE guy. The others who didn't work don't matter.
2006-08-15 19:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Koriandr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raise your standards,you maybe going out with low quality people.Raise yourself out of the dumps,beauty is in the eye of the beholder,no one is meant to be alone,they choose to,and you don't have to unless you choose to.Good luck.
2006-08-15 19:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet ur not ugly ur self esteems probably just really low if youve never had a good date you just have to be more careful with who you date in the first place im sure ur attractive really
but just in case ur not...wear a lot of makeup
2006-08-15 19:26:27 · answer #11 · answered by purple_ronnie_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋