i just started a new job and im in training for 2 weeks. this other older lady started the same day and is in training claases with me. everytime i ask a question to my trainer during lecture that other new lady answers for the trainer talks over the trainer and answers for her. im pissed off because i didnt ask her and i feel im being snubbed by this old pompous lady. i didnt ask her i want to know the answer from my trainer. why is this lady doing this? is she trying tp piss me off, snub me. what is her problem. im not getting the most out of my training cuz i cant get feedback from the proper person my trainer. i dont feel im getting the most out of my training. and im too consumed with annoyance to concentrate ^& engage in discussion w/ my trainer.
2006-08-15 12:18:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to embarrass the old blue hair. Next time she does it, just say - in a loud and strong voice - I didn't ask you, can you let the trainer answer. If she says she just trying to help, say - again in the loud and strong voice - I didn't ask for your help, I raised my hand and was recognized, now please be courteous and let me have the floor and hear the trainer's response.
After the class, you can talk to the trainer and let him know that you could not hear him over her and you want to ensure you get the correct answers - after all, you want to do your job correctly!
2006-08-15 13:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every-time you have a question, write it down. Then at the end of the training, ask you trainer alone. The other person is just trying to let the trainer know that she can do the job and make it look like she's very knowledgeable. Try my suggestion. It will make the lady worry why your not asking anymore, and even worry more that your spending time alone with the trainer. It will kind of throw her off. You will also look more professional by writing you questions down and going over them with your trainer.
2006-08-15 13:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not alone in feeling frustrated. When this Older Lady (Lady) talks over the trainer and answers for her, I'm sure that the trainer is equally annoyed as you are. Lady is preventing Trainer from doing her job - as well as interfering with you learning to do your job. I think that it would be best to address this now before it causes you more angst and truly interferes with your performance.
I suggest possibly taking Trainer aside, away from (out of sight and earshot of) Lady, and mentioning that you may need further instruction because Lady's interruptions distracted you from Trainer's teaching. I know... you may feel as though Trainer then thinks that you are not bright if you ask for further instruction but it may show Trainer that Lady's behavior is indeed a problem. You could also approach your supervisor (if you have one and if you can approach them) and discuss the issue. It is a difficult situation, being new on the job and trying to address a problem without seeming to be a "complainer" or "unintelligent" or a less than desirable employee. So, saying less to whomever you choose to address the issue with is actually a bigger statement about yourself than going on and on about this Lady. Good luck.
2006-08-15 12:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Shibi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here' an idea......Next time she butt's in, ask the trainer if she's getting paid to answer his questions. She is doing this to prove to the trainer "she" is adequate for her own age. Good luck.
2006-08-15 12:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Spaniard71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your trainer off to the side and explain your problem..in the mean time,tell the older lady that you didn't ask her,so please don't answer me!
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2016-11-04 21:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she does this I'd say listen (insert name here) I'm not asking you.... I'm asking our trainer. If I want your opinion/advice/whatever I'll ask for it. You need to butt out.
2006-08-15 12:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the trainer privatley and tell them your concern
2006-08-15 12:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i know how you mean, ignore it and remember, its just an old lady who doesnt have much people to talk to
2006-08-15 12:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look her in the eyes and tell her to shut the **** up
2006-08-15 12:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by meandmyskate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋