my girlfriend is goin to uni a real long way away and im makin her go even though my mind and heart is screaming dont go why do i keep telling her to go?
2006-08-15 12:08:31 · 17 answers · asked by verons_girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youre makin her go because you think its best for her and you want her to better herself no matter how much it hurts you
or maybe you think if shes goes to uni shell move on and itll be better for her cos in your head ur daft enough to believe youre not good for her
or maybe youre just scared to take her for yourself and you think that this way will hurt her less in the long run even though you know shes as in love as you are
or maybe you know you cant be together yet and this way youll know shes doing something thats 'better for her', or ou dont want her to do the alternative to uni cos itll be worse than it is now, or because at least you know where she is and on some level thats good for you too...
or maybe you should stop thinking what you think is best because she knows her own mind,
stop thinking bout other people because the only one that can help them is themselves,
think about the ones that really matter, you and the girl you love who loves you,
and go and get her and stop both of you from going through this because its killin both of you already and she hasnt even gone, just go for it put yourself first you deserve it, and so does she
do what you know is REALLY best for her before you cause more hurt, especially for yourself, than you know how to handle
2006-08-15 12:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by purple_ronnie_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making her go? Like you control her life that much? Give me a break.
What's stopping you from moving out there with her and enrolling in the same college or one nearby or getting a job there?
2006-08-15 19:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because going to college opens up all kinds of doors. Going someplace new and making new friends is an important skill young adults need to cultivate.
2006-08-15 19:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by CM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u want her to have a good life. honestly, ur doing the right thing. maybe u should go with her hehe
hope it works out
and if she cheats on u, shes not the girl u thought she was.
2006-08-15 19:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you know that letting her do what she needs to is better for her than your emotions. Mad props, bud, it's very hard to do. If you love someone let them go, if it's true love they'll return.
2006-08-15 19:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Migity696 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you obviously love her and would do anything for her....you obviously dont care how much you hurt just as long as she is happy and she is one of the lucky few who have that...hang in there...it will be worth it when she gets back
2006-08-15 19:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don`t known why you tell her to go ,if your heart is telling you to stop her from going. you need to go with your heart , the way that you feel in side , tell her now you feel. if you don`t she will never know.
2006-08-15 19:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c you know deep down inside that's what's best for her. that also shows you don't just love her. you truly care about her as a whole and that's even better.
2006-08-15 19:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you want what is best for her, even if it's not you.
2006-08-15 19:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best answer is that you are a glutton for punishment -
2006-08-15 19:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by worriedaboutyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋