SO this girl seems to not want to go to a date with me (not obvious) I dont know why, maybe even because she never dated before and feels scared...i dunno
so I want to go to the movies with her
Is it ok if I tell her that we will go with another friends and then once we get there, I tell her that no one was able to come...and we would be alnoe? IS THAT OK?
2006-08-15 12:03:25 · 14 answers · asked by G-Unit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. That would probably make her feel uncomfortable. What would be a good thing is to really bring friends along so that she feels safe and just kinda test the waters out ya know? Flirt with her to see if she likes you and then ask her if she wants to go and hang out with you and you alone next time
Hope that helps.
2006-08-15 12:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by cheeeeeezymouse25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's a lie and she'll hate you even more especially if she's uncomfortable with the idea. Try actually taking her on a group date. Maybe she doesn't want to go to the movies or maybe she's not allowed to go out with just a boy. If that's the case you could get her in trouble if you trick her into that then she'll really hate you. Good luck.
2006-08-15 19:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she would see right through it and you would probably end up losing her trust rather than helping her gain confidence. Start off with a group or doubling... and then move on to an actual date! Best of Luck!!1
2006-08-15 19:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by shortchic070307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's creepy and deceitful. Get a group together honestly and go. Do that a few times, and maybe she'll want to date you. If you try to trick her you prove all the things she may be thinking about you as right. If you try to be sneaky, bring your athletic cup and a clean shirt.
2006-08-15 19:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she already said no.. or she has hinted you that you are not her type (there is no such thing as being scared of dating) then you need to leave her alone.
You are going to creep her out if you lie to her. Besides, since when going to the movies is a date? how old are you? 12?
2006-08-15 19:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that will just scare her more...she will probably be mad that you lied to her to get her alone and think that you have creepy intentions.
you either need to actually have some friends (her friends too) along or ask out a girl who is actually interested in you and doesnt mind the idea of being alone with you.
2006-08-15 19:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is dishonest. You will always feel guilty and would not be able to face her knowing that you deceived her.
i would at least. ask her what she would like and do that. she will appreciate your kind consideration and because of that may win her heart. always be open and true. not only for the other person, but mostly for yourself, so you can always have a clear free mind.
2006-08-15 19:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty sleazy man. You should never have to con a girl into going out with you.
2006-08-15 19:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Find actual friends to go with you. Once she feels comfortable with you, she may want to go out with you alone. It should be her decision though.
2006-08-15 19:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by Koriandr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is because you should accually ask people to come but on a busy day.that way its not a lie.
2006-08-15 19:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋