I went to a movie today with this girl that I like and 2 of our friends. She ended up sitting next to me. Then, she leaned away from me, and I mean WAY far away. Partway through the movie she sat normally. I'm really confused about her feelings for me since she has done things such as asked me to dance at one of our high school dances and stuff like that. Should I take this as a negative sign and just move on, or what?
2006-08-15 11:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, you sound like me 6 years ago. You love this girl right, you think about her everyday right? Last thing at night, first thing in the morning? She smiles at you - and you're happy for the rest of the day, she flirts with your best friend and you feel like stabbing the fat kid sitting infront of you?
Well anyway, LISTEN TO ME. You are always going to obssess about this girl because you will never find the confidence to ask her how she feels because you will think it will ruin your friendship and things will be akward. They won't. You need to grow up and realise (and hopefully you will soon) that life is too short to worry about these things.
You went to a movie with this girl, great! But you went with 2 friends? Hmmmm. she sat next to you! Great! But wait she leaned away from you, hmmmm. She asked you to dance? Great! But then she did this..... To be honest, if someone likes you, it's easy to tell. They will make up excuses to spend time with you, they will find it difficult to look you in the eye, they will be touchy feely. What i'm saying is, that I think she considers you as a friend.
However, nobody knows for sure, apart from her. You will always looks for signs as to how she feels about you and obssess about even the tiniest glimmer of hope. But will never know unless you grown some balls, disregard any embarassement you might feel, or any pain, and just ask her (nicely & with confidence) how she feels. You have to believe me when I tell you that rejection is noway near the worst thing that could happen to you it's likely to happen over and over again but in the midst of all that, you will find someone who fancies you as much as you do them....and to be honest you will probably regret the fact that you didn't ask her when you're older.
Good Luck!
2006-08-15 12:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Joe_Floggs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her. Look, perhaps you are reading into things way too far... She may just see you as a friend and nothing else. If she leaned WAY too far from you, then she was trying to hint you that this was not a date and she had no intention on making it feel like one.
You really need to move on, unless you want to end up being her very best friend and watch her get screw over and over by every jack *** that lives in your town/city/county/state/country
2006-08-15 19:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I hear, she is sending you mixed signals, but of course there may be more to this story than you have posted. The best thing to do is to just try and spend more time with her and see how continues to behave around you. Don't go up to her and ask her straight out "So, do you have feelings for me ? " She will most likely feel cornered. Those types of questions should be answered through her words and actions. Good luck!
2006-08-15 19:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by btwnmenyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm mm, did you do anything then or in past to offend her in anyway....how well do you know her, maybe she just wants to take things slow, and doesn't want to hold hands,or whatever else, right away..what is her age, she might just want a night out with friends, it sounds to me that once she gave you the message, she sat normal, b/c she felt you would not grope her, and gained your trust. Talk to her, and she may tell you. communication is the key to all relationships......
2006-08-15 19:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by zuriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, does she know that you like her like that?
maybe she thinks that the two of you are just friends since you all went w/friends. Or maybe she is just as nervous, and she likes you too. so maybe you should just ask her.
good luck
2006-08-15 19:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just ask, I wiggle lots at the movie theater to get comfy.
2006-08-15 18:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont read so far into it.
You cant use body language THAT literally. Try opening up communication.
2006-08-15 19:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just talk to her about that situation and what you think and if she give you a negative response just move on
2006-08-15 19:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her. what the heck is wrong with people ask the questions that you need answers to. you do want to know don't you? just ask anyone anything that is important to you and accept their answer and there you have it......
2006-08-15 19:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just had gas? Did you smell something funny???
2006-08-15 18:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋