so i went out with this guy and umm well we went out for 2 weeks and well... we did stuff and then i had to go on a family vacation for two weeks so when i came back i tried contacting him but the only answer i got was "im busy" so ever since that time we havent caught up where we left off. And things have really started to confuse me. He doesnt pick up his phone or anything so i cant even get in contact with him. Has he moved on if yes should i just ask him straight up if he ended that relationship? or Do u really think he's busy or he just needs his space. Its hard for me cause i love him but i dont think im getting the love returned from him and i dont even know if we're still in a relationship. When we were in a relationship he said he' d love longtime and be always there for me and all that bullshit but now im just confused and i dont know what to do. Is it worth wasting tears for him every morning i wake up thinkin today we might get together......
2006-08-15 11:50:42 · 31 answers · asked by Angel to da rescue 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could he have been cheating on me? Plus he spends a LOTT and when i say a LOTT i mean LOTT of time with his friends getting high and drunk. Plush he has told me that once in a while he goes to strip club just with his friends to drink and all but he never did anything. should i stick with him and keep trusting him or leave him and move on?
2006-08-15 11:53:07 · update #1
If you love someone, let them go. if they return, they're yours. If they don't, it was never meant to be.
2006-08-23 11:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you went out with him for 2 weeks then he probably knew that you were going on a vacation. He wouldv'e buttered you up so he could get between those perky little thighs and then ditched you and chased some other girl. Dont worry about him, he will get an STD sometime and then the girls wont go near him
2006-08-22 15:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by alias_47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES: DO NOT CALL HIM!!!
Sorry to say, he does sound like a loser. I know that they're the most interesting and cute though. You've probably heard the phrase "He's just not that into you". Be happy you weren't with him for 2 months or 2 years. You deserve to be treated better. So...suck it up-he's not for you, and now go out and find somebody that will love and respect you. I know it hurts. I've been there. I'm sorry you're going through this. Good luck.
2006-08-15 12:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by mary h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what girl you don't need to stress and cry over a guy, guys come and go and if he is not making an effort to contacting you back than you shouldn't make him worth your time. You need to move on and hey if he does call you then he does, but don't dwell on it because it will only make you sad and dissapointed, you have better things to do anyway then wait on him. I say your way better than him so move on you don't want a guy anyway that hangs out with his friends alot and gets drunk and high your better than that. Good Luck Girl!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 11:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by California<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you went out for two weeks and you did stuff he already know what you are about ask your self and stop the tears if he really loved you would he be treating you like this no he has other thing on his mind and that don't include you so move on with your life and stop being so free hearted with the stuff what ever that mean good luck
2006-08-15 12:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks of seeing someone is not long enough for it to be considered a "relationship" unless you both had an understanding.
Lets cut to the chase. Honey, he wasn't that into you to begin with, you gave him what he was after and now he has no use for you.
It's a learning experience, take it as that and move on. Quit trying to contact the guy, please!
2006-08-15 12:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You went on a 2week vaction and he found someone else. I don't care how busy you are when someone you love you will find a way to talk to him/her whether its a 2-5min conversation. There are so many ways that he could have talk to you. He seems to be a little to busy that he can't make time and you don't need no man that can't make no damn time for someone that he so call love.
2006-08-15 11:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many hints does it take, you shouldn't waste brainpower let alone tears. if he is into drugs and alcohol, that should be a real eye opener for you. if he did happen to feel any pain over you the drugs will numb it and he will feel none. drugs do numb a heartache. I'm not saying he has a heartache, just that count your blessings, one day when you think back on it , you will say thank you god for not letting me end up with that loser.
2006-08-15 12:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already moved on to another girl.
He won't talk to you honestly about it.
So don't even bother to contact him. Dry your eyes. The two of you won't be together again.
Your real problem goes back to the first date and falling in love with him --you fall for players who will lie to you --who taught you that? Until you resolve that riddle, you'll get burned repeatedly.
2006-08-15 11:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him since he hasn't dumped you yet. He's obviously not worth your time if he doesn't even want to spend any with you. Don't waste your tears on this guy. He's not worth it. And as for him cheating or anything on you? I wouldn't really know. You'll have to ask him about it.
2006-08-15 11:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by dimkaluv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is not interested. plus u only went out with him for 2 weeks! get over him and try to move on. u will find someone better and u deserve better than a guy who is too "busy" to talk to u! good luck!
2006-08-15 11:54:55 · answer #11 · answered by ♥_mrs.smith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋