this is my second question dealing with people calling pointing out kids being so young and crap because of there questions. even if we are kids that gets bloody annoying. this guy talked about his relationship and how he never got to see his gf(their 14) and people said how there so young and couldnt be serious anyway.
riddle me this how would you feel if you decided that you were too young to date a person you liked while you were young and later in life somehow found she/he would be your wife.
you'd be pissed and regretful.
so why do you adults keep holding the fact that we are young over our heads we KNOW!
(that last thing is my question)
2006-08-15 11:48:36 · 30 answers · asked by not me but you 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey to clear up some stuff you all were confused about ... apparently.
how are you protecting us by telling us not to date period i know we could get hurt but well that will prepare us for rejection in the future. unless the childs emo then he/she probably cant handle rejection.
another thing they werent offering perspective one person said go ask your momma kid
2006-08-15 12:06:27 · update #1
Most people who say this or that about "being too young" to fall in love wished they'd done it themselves, they are jealous. I know a woman, who was 12 and married a guy 19, they've been together now for 22 years!!!
Then you got Elvis Presley and Priscilla. She was only 15 when he met her and he was well into his late teens. You know that story. And even in the Christian Bible in fact in the book of the song of Solomon in chapter 8 verse 8, the women talk about a young girl, preteen.
The list can go on and on, so ignore the people who condemn young lovers, they are just jealous!!!
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2006-08-15 19:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what it is times has changed and when i was growing up my parents wouldn't allow you to date until we were 18 and kids that young should not be allowed to date maybe 16 but with a adult supervision and you are right its not the kids fault on this it the parents fault for letting there kids run loose so when they have a baby at there age then that's when the parent are saying where did i go wrong. Well the parents should have more control over there kids. And make them stay at home and watch Sponge bob cause there are just kids and don't know a thing about the world.
2006-08-15 12:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just that we have "been there, done that." and most of us have the experience of wasting time on insignificant matters that we SHOULD have just gotten over quicker instead of dwelling on it like idiots. I know it seems (when you are young) that everything you are going through is the most trying time of your life. What we are trying to say is: just be a kid. Enjoy life while it's a little less complicated than paying rent/ a mortgage, spending money on your kids, working and earning an income (not just for leisure but) for (mostly) paying bills - utility, car, kids, doctor, home, gorceries, gas, etc., etc. These things seem trivial to us because we feel like we have "real world" problems, problems that stem deeper than "I don't get to see my girlfriend enough." His mind should be more on school and his grades than some girl who is more interested in spending time with her friends than him. He SHOULD just move on. WHy is he spending so much time and energy on some girl who could probably give a hoot.
and I suppose I can empathize, try to picture him as a person who is a bit older, and give him some sound advice...which I would then say: if she is spending so much time with her friends and not putting so much emphasis on seeing you, then she is not worth it. Concentrate on school and move on. That is what I would have told him. I did not reply to his question because he IS a child and I did not want to say anything mean. But I chose to answer your query because you seemed so disturbed by "our" comments.
have a nice day
2006-08-15 12:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't say anything about the teens ect. on here, I answer there question the best I can, if I don't think I have any advice on it I go to the next one. In a way your kinda doin the same thing your accussing others of doin. Your sayin all adults when it just some. Love is great no matter what your age. I don't believe anyone can tell you if you love someone or not. I know, I use to get told that all the time when I was a teen. Its all in how you go about it. :)
2006-08-15 12:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be angry at us, but you're still young and have your whole life ahead of you. We have walked a mile in your shoes already, and know what mistakes we've made. We want to save others from those same mistakes. We know that the chances that she will be his wife are astronomically slim. We know that relationships are tough, but are short lived when you're a teenager. Getting eyeball deep in something like that makes you make bad choices, or shoot yourself in the foot. You could be focusing on your education, or skills that will help you in the future. Not planning your wedding at the age of 14. Take a deep breath. I realise all this seems like life or death now, but you'll laugh at yourself in ten years. Trust me, we all are now. And if it is meant to be that you are supposed to be with that girl, then it will happen in time. But, at least you'll have lived some and have a decent future if you do get married. Love is great, but it won't feed your kids or keep a roof over your head.
2006-08-15 12:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only make a comment on age when it deals with young pregnancies, so many youngens come on and rant how horrible their life if because they got pregnant. boohoo its their fault.
younger people are entitled to have there relationships and maybe us adults should consider that if we keep saying that their relationships aren't serious then they may want to prove it by going out and having sex. i guess other adults mean its not serious in the fact that a question about a marriage relationship is better because in all honesty the younger couple very rarely last. so giving them tips would be a waste of their time.
2006-08-15 12:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by *Kali* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being old now, I feel comfortable answering your question. We adults hate you for being young. You've got your whole future ahead of you. Anything you dream can be your reality. As for us, most of us are just trying to make it through the day. So quit your complaining, tell the old farts that are pissing you off to shove it, and get out there and have some fun (knowing that you'll still be here long after us adults are dead).
2006-08-15 12:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sean B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 25 and I am with you all the way!
In a world where 8 years old girls can wear mini skirts and thongs and guys that are 10 can get a pierce, I say there is no such a thing as too young.
Don't even bother with those old bastards. I am way to old now, but I am with you 150%
2006-08-15 11:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an adult and I certainly do not think that way so don't paint us all that way. Each person is their own and shoudl be dealt with as such.
Anyhoo, sure two 14 y/o's can be in love. Just use the full-body condoms and everything will be fine.
If you do not want people to make fun of your age, don't tell people your age. This is the Web. You can be completely anonymous here.
2006-08-15 11:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you have in countered adults who make you feel that way. It is true you are young but you still have feelings and they are as real concerning love as much as an adults can be.
Please know that love is not an age but a feeling, and can happen at 5 or 105 I hope you can actually meet adults who don't think of you as a number but as a person.
Good Luck in you life.
2006-08-15 11:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by bonita_cooper2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋