Theres this guy "landon" hes like madly in love with me, at one point i liked him too but we argue to much and dont get along. and he doesnt want me to have any friends besides him, and im not like that. so then i get a text the other day from "james" and me and james only talked once, at after prom in march so i thought wow why is he texting me well landon stold my cell phone and read everything on it WITHOUT my permission so now hes mad i was talking to james, well wev been hanging out alot.. and I really really REALLY like james, hes amazing well today he takes me and said "i know you like me, this might be soon to say since were not together.. but... I love you" and he looked me straight in the eyes.. and I melted and I was lik wow.. so now my problem is, I want to be with him SO effin bad, but then i dont want to hurt landon && im scared of getting hurt.. so should i just get with him and take the chance since i care about him so much??? or what.
2006-08-15 11:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you and landon tried and all you do is fight, then there really isn't a real relationship there. I understand you care and don't want to hurt him, but it will be ok. I would give James a chance...if you like him and you think he likes you (and not doin the love you thing to get down ur pants) then go for it. good luck
2006-08-15 11:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Landon is one of those guys you see on tv. You know the ones that kill their girlfriends, or beat them up, or kill their girlfriend's parents. Steer clear of him. The signs are all there that this guy is a controlling creep. He invaded your privacy, limits your friends, and created all this drama. Bad boyfriend qualities, and I should know. I dated one myself.
You need to get yourself together, and be strong, and be on your own for a while. Then you won't have to worry about getting hurt. You shouldn't define yourself by the person you date. Then, try a relationship with James. If James is really into you he will wait a bit for you. And, you can use that time to get to know him better and see if he is what you want.
2006-08-15 18:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever ur heart wants 2 do. if u care so much about james, then go for him. if landon dont like the idea of u going out with james then hes SOL. its ur decision, not his. now for the part of u hurting him he will just have 2 get over it and be friends. if he hurts u physically report it 2 the police or if ur still with ur parents report it 2 them.
2006-08-15 18:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to "effin" spell. Take James. He is more stable than Landon, who is too old for you and all he wants its to posses you like if you were an object. Seriously, you need to cut Landon out of your life for good... You dont love Landon, you FEAR him
2006-08-15 18:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with James. He seems like a great guy and ya'll obviously have great chemistry. About Landon: Tell him that he's not the guy for you and that you want to be friends with him, stress to him that he needs to move on from you because you don't have any feelings for him. Good Luck. ((((don't wanna jenx things with you and James but I think ya'll will be together for a long time! =D)))))
2006-08-15 18:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU STUPID?????
not only should you go for "james", but you should also kick that a$$hole "landon"'s a$$ all to hell on your way out. He is a controling, abusive pig and is giving the rest of us guys (except for "james" i guess) a bad name and reputation. Fk him and move on to "james" (who seems a little like me actually).
Good luck sweetheart.
2006-08-15 19:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by WolfMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with James. If Landon is too controling then let him go be with someone who is willing you to be you.
2006-08-15 18:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that landon guy is freakin obsessed that is just wierdness so i think you need to be with james girl go for it he loves you for get landon he is just plain crazy
2006-08-15 18:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by sexy love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get james its sound like he wouldn't hurt you and he sounds totally great-you don't like this landon guy right??well good.tell him you jst want to be friends and that he shouldn't up in your stuff.
2006-08-15 18:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Rosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex sounds like a psycho. f-him. you can go out with whom ever you choose. be careful though he sounds a little unstable. try not to be around him when you go out with that other guy. good luck
2006-08-15 18:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋