im 14. i have a girlfriend and i love her, but i never get to see her. Theres 2-5 weeks between times i get to see her, and its all because she is always busy and her mom doesnt let her go places more than twice a week. and insted of using those two times on me, she goes out with her female friends. im sick of it, but i really dont know what to do
2006-08-15 11:38:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on
2006-08-15 11:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you're feeling about the whole thing and find out if there's a way that you can compromise so everyone is happy. Since her mother won't let her out often ask her if she can split the time she can go out between you and her friends, or go out with a group of your friends and hers. I'm sure she doesn't realize what she's doing and that she will want to compromise when she knows how your feeling. Good luck!
2006-08-15 18:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tell.Me.Sweetly. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw hell to da naw. Don't listen to the second answer. Just cuz you 14 don't mean you should be out gettin in trouble. That was a dumb *** answer. What you should do is talk to her about how you feel and hear her side of the story too.
2006-08-15 18:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Demajae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you hang out at her house if she can only go out twice a week. This way, her parents will get to know you and get comfortable, and you get to see her as well. Who knows, later on, once the parents get to know you, they'll allow your girlfriend to go out a couple more times.
2006-08-15 18:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by alexandria h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to move on. Maybe you have misunderstood your girlfriend's intentions. She may just want to be a "girl" friend to you rather than the type of girlfriend you want. Talk to her and ask her what she wants to be friends or lovers.
2006-08-15 18:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by greekgirl31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can see her in school everyday..that is if your in the same school:) Do you talk on the phone?? Maybe you guys can chat on the internet and you can also use the webcam right???If you love her, just be a little patient:)..your even lucky to get to see her 2 times in a week...some girls dont even get to see their husband before their marriage(Custom)..
2006-08-15 18:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you are to young, be young and go out with your friends. Be a KID!! You only get it once! You don't know what love is yet.
2006-08-15 18:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by motherofbjz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax your only 14 you should be out with the boys gittin into trouble
2006-08-15 18:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by hyt_mtt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake up w/ her. you never see her and chances are she doesn't like you as much as you like her. tell her that you don't think this is really working, so lets just be friends
2006-08-15 18:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by bex d. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly cared about you, she'd try to spend as much time with you as she can. My advice? Move on.
2006-08-15 18:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's 14 dude. she needs to be able to hang out with her friends. you guys are too young to be serious anyway.
2006-08-15 18:42:04 · answer #11 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋