I believe that keeping yourself for the right person is really important, because I don't believe in wasting my emotions my feelings for the person that is not the person that God has given me. I rather keep all that and give in to my wife.
2006-08-15 11:24:47 · 20 answers · asked by Andrey R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Marriage is a waste of money.
2006-08-15 11:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? So while a teenager you are not "alive"? Life only starts after marriage as an adult?
If you build up virginity to be the be all and end all of existence, you will do a smuch complaining as anyone. What you do is your own choice but if you do save yourself foir marriage and you suck at love making--what's next?
Will you blame God when your wife becomes unsatisfied and leaves you?
Look, I thought Christians were supposed to be tolerant of all beliefs. You believe what you want and I believe what I want. No one's right. No one's wrong. there is NOTHING wrong with dating.
Would you prefer to have sexuality so suppressed like in Mulsim nations where these men go so nutso with sexual frustration that they want to get to heaven to get some ***** as they are losers on Earth?
2006-08-15 18:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teenagers date because it's like shopping around, so to speak. You can date without giving up any personal emotions or values. I agree this is to be saved for that special person in your life. But tell me... how are you going to find that special person if you don't look for them? Dating can turn into a life long relationship with your life time partner through marriage. Or, it can turn into a wonderful life long friendship. And then there are absolute splits where you never want to see that person again in your entire life. Dating brings out the truth in a person if they are putting up a front only to impress you.
2006-08-15 18:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that not dating guarantees you any better chance of a lasting marriage. whether or not you indulge in premarital sex, there is a lot that you can learn about life, emotions, women, and relationships that you can only learn by experience, and that can be of great value to offer your future wife as well. when its finally the right girl, i think it's even better to have the maturity by experience to be understanding and confident, and this can definitely help you to be a good husband to your wife. it's not like you waste emotions--you only waste time or emotions when you don't learn anything.
2006-08-15 18:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do not understand is that it is all a maturing process. It has to start some where. This is how you learn about relationships. The chances of never having a male/female relationship and then thinking that you will have a successful marriage are slim to none. It is how you play the game and learn, pal.
2006-08-15 18:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And then when you turn 18 and go to Bible College you will be so horny than you will end up getting married before turning 20 and since you and your spouse never had sex or a real relationship before, you both will be miserable but wont admit it because you are doing God's will.
2006-08-15 18:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you. It's important to save yourself for the person you marry. Although it may be hard through the teen years with everyone talking about it and peer pressure, it will be totally worth it. When happily married couples are asked one thing they regret, it is always that they didn't wait until they were married to have sex. They always wish that their first time were with their spouse.
2006-08-15 18:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really lovely. See if you can get your church youth group to teach on that subject. Most churches don't even think to teach the youth on how to meet someone and leave it up to the world way too much. Some really good books on this are below.
2006-08-15 18:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really admirable. you think you could do it? i dont think marraiges dont work cuz ppl date, i think they dont work cuz ppl get married too early. if anything, dating gives you more experience to get to know your own likes and dislikes, so when you do marry, you can make sure that that person is the right one for you, through experience of all the wrong ones
2006-08-15 18:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by MyGreenCivic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure I understand your question.
People need to date other people to find out if they are compatable and like each other so hopefully if they do decide to get married to that person it will work out.
2006-08-15 18:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by anabele6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋