so, i liked this guy who only wants to see me like twice a month, yet tells me, and has been telling me for the past three years, that i hold a spactacular allure for him bc i'm so smart and sexy and sweet an nice. and how he respects that I understand about him needing to focus on his career rite now blah blah blah
i can't get over this guy at all and i so badly want to, but i just am so like the big eyed adoring puppy madly in love with everything about him i overlook the reality and hope for that 0.00000001% chance we can have a future one day.
any advice on how best to forget him?? i've let him know i wantt o stop seeing him, and he keeps pulling me bad with his sweet line of BS. i'm so silly and dumb and sad ... sigh.
2006-08-15 11:20:36 · 14 answers · asked by asiaasisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing, dont call yourself dumb or silly, you arnt any of those, Its a natural thing to like someone and it takes time even if they dont feel the same way to get over that. You may have a crush and crush are exciting. I love those. nothing wrong with daydreaming and exploring. If it makes you feel good to think about him do it. Its not taboo, It wont hurt you or him. When it is time you will walk away but it could alos be a lifetime crush like we all have... Good luck. Do more things to think of him. I think that is cool : )
2006-08-15 11:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by kjoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God it is sooooooo hard.... I was in love with this boy for about a year and then one day I picked out all the stuff I hated about him and it disgusted me but It is gonna takea min so just try
2006-08-15 11:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by ballerinagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know how to get rid of him.... so just stop. You already realize he's BS, so why not treat him like BS??
Focus on someone else, there are plenty out there.
2006-08-15 11:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by lizeth02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same problem, the guy i like we went out, broke up he went out with another girl but were still really close.
2006-08-15 11:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you realize that he is just stringing you along. It is hard to do, but you need to find somebody else. Easier said than done, but time heels all wounds.
2006-08-15 11:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem..............just try really hard 2 find someone that could mean more 2 u then this guy. I found mine :)
2006-08-15 11:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by newman12992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO: He's play'n with your emotions. I suggest find another. Take a vacation, party it up, and move on ;o)
2006-08-15 11:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by r0bErT4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 YEARS, okay u need help, start by slapping urself silly for wasting all those years
2006-08-15 11:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a better man
2006-08-15 11:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by zammane1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and meet him
2006-08-15 11:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Hypercutie_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋