I want him back he needs more time to figure out if he can start again. I know for a fact that he has nobody else! I told him that he cant call me and tell me he loves me because it hurts too much if he says it and nothing happens. What do I do now?
2006-08-15 11:16:46 · 14 answers · asked by verybadfaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a life. He is verybadfaya.
2006-08-15 11:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't ready.. hes to young scared etc. u cant make people fall in love its something u grow in not fall in.. and dont force it or he will hate ya u want him back on ur terms to love u in the way u need.. If he doesn't have anyone whats this say? he ain't ready .. you go thru a detachment mourning as well.. sometimes the detachment process is like divorce. no one likes to be dissed or not equal when they pour out their love and soul etc.. but some people are just not ready or meant to be.. go on forget the hurt.. u think about that hurt - ask yourself what is acceptable ? well u know what isn't ya just said u stipulated he cant call and say he loves u as it hurts well he knows not love yet if he cant decide.. things can go a bit to fast.. slow down breath go on fro a month to heal then date.. if he calls for a date make it a date not a book of rules and hopes he cant live up to grow slow..
2006-08-15 11:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your in a lot pain. I know this because I sounded this way when my boyfriend dumped me. Keep a diary. I mean keep it. You'll read it one day and be shocked how differently you thought then. Anyway there is nothing you can do. If he wants to leave, he will. Telling you that he loves you is just his way of trying not to hurt you but they don't understand that it just keeps you hanging on. After some time you will be able to let go. but not as long as you think there is hope. Mine kept me hanging on for 3 yrs. It really did mess my head up for yrs.
2006-08-15 11:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not control another person. If he has cheated on you once he will do it again and again. He wants to play mind games with you, be upfront and tell him you know that he knows and if he continues with the whole affair of things the way they are you will never talk to him again. He will come back and say "you know what" that's when you say " I know what you know and that's all I need to know. If you want to change things you know where I am. But I may not want what you have to offer later down the road. so good by for now" and hang up.
2006-08-15 11:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that If he cant figure out what he wants your not waiting a lifetime to. Just because he doesn't have anybody else doesn't mean he doesn't have a girl in mind. Tell him If he cant figure out your moving on because theres more fish in the sea to be caught.
2006-08-15 11:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away and live your life. The best revenge is living well! Then if he comes back YOU can decide at that time if YOU are willing to take him back!
2006-08-15 11:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by wahine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least he is being honest so that is a plus for you. give him his space but do not shut him out. If he does decide you are what he wants then shutting him out will be bad. also it may hurt but it shows him how much you care.
2006-08-15 11:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by vicki p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no offense u kinda told him to go away and some guyz are tierd of chassing so yea same happen to my best friend and he ran off its stupid and if u want him back go talk to him
2006-08-15 11:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Hypercutie_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time don't rush him.You don't want him to blame you for a mistake if something go wrong.
2006-08-15 11:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is to leave him alone and not take his calls and move on.
2006-08-15 11:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by zachary r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋