ok i have this friend whos a guy and he likes me a lot more than a friend he asks me out all the time and i say no i just wanna be friends with him and hes not my type
he liked me for a bout 2 to 3 months and he started asking me out a lot lately and today he tried to bribe me
he said if i went out with him he'll give me expensive jewelry
i dont wanna hurt his feelings but should i stop hanging out with him?
2006-08-15 11:15:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and people i dont like him like THAT please dont tell me that coz hes not my type of guy to date ok
2006-08-15 11:20:42 · update #1
can i ask why you wont give him a chance? how do u know u wouldnt fall in love with him if u two spiced up ur relationship?
2006-08-15 11:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You confused me. OK let me get this straight, you don't date the "type" of people you hang out with? That's one heck of a theory if you ask me. I mean why wouldn't you? You obviously respect the guy so why not date him? OK I"M NOT TELLING YOU TO DATE HIM, but you shouldn't be so closed-minded when it comes to these things, take it from. Love arises in odd places. You shouldn't stop hanging out with someone because they like you and you don't like him. The next time he asks you out tell him something like this, "*insert his name here*, I like you a lot as a friend and person. i cherish our friendship, but I don't think I can be more with you. I'm not the kind of person that accepts gifts from someone as bribes to do things and I could never be with someone who did that. I'm not saying that something could never happen between us, but now and anytime in the near future is not the time for us to be "us". I wish you could accept that and move on. There's someone out there that will like you, but I'm not that person. If I ever change the way I feel about you, I will let you know. I'm sorry." If you tell him that he's not your type then he'll try to change himself for you, hence becoming a "fake" and I'm sure you wouldn't want that. Good Luck and Hope I helped!
2006-08-15 11:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should let him know that he is assuming you are easy and would be willing to go out with him just for some sort of compensation. let him know how offensive that is to you let alone any girl. that is no way of getting a serious girlfriend. maybe you should put some distance between the two of you, doesn't sound like he respects you very much.
2006-08-15 11:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! don't do dat. He gon be salty at you. So I think if he really likes you that much, den give him a chance. And if you really don't want to go wit him den make sure you make it clear as day for him that you ain't interested. If that don't work, get another boyfriend and push him away.
2006-08-15 11:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Demajae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tease the hell out of him, and wear a short dress with thong panties. Then tell him you are getting very wet and have to meet another guy. That should get rid of him.
2006-08-15 11:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no!listen i used to have the same problem.
except the guy friend that i had was only my guy friend because i thought he was gay.
oh and his old friends were a couple of je*ks so me and my friend desided to be his friend.
any who he asked me out and we are still friends it didn't matter that he asked me out things would still be the same except i would know he like.
when in dought follow your heart.
2006-08-15 11:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him chances are If he doesn't like you he will back off. Be friends with him see what he has to offer. Being nice is the key to life.
2006-08-15 11:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you really, really want that expensive jewelry, yes, since he predicated his gifts on your willingness to date him, you should distance yourself from him. But before you do that, give him one last chance, let him know very clearly that your feelings can't be bought with gifts.
2006-08-15 11:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no he is still your friend so dont stop hanging out with him jst yet.go up to him next time you see him and have a talk tell him what you are really feeling.But if he keeps asking you than he must be real low and he doesnt deserve you friendship at all.Then you can stop hanging out with him.
2006-08-15 11:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no just tell him u dont wanna go out u just wanna be friends
2006-08-15 11:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by antonio d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋