What is the easiest way to forget about a guy?

Question

I know most of you are thinking..just go out with another one! But, its hard to do that considering Im still hung up on him. There was this whole drama deal goin on last weekend with another girl, I guess he was playing both me and her at the same time and niether one of us knew about it, until then. I told him that Im thru with him..but I said that out of anger. Now, hes with that other girl and I dont know what to say to him to let him know how I feel, I dont know how to do that either. Does anyone have any suggestions? Im sure a lot of you understand where I am coming from..

Answer 1

I do and the best thing that you can do is focus on yourself. Don't just move onto another guy- your not ready. Spend time with friends and focus on the things you love and soon enough you'll be ready to move on to a more deserving guy.

Answer 2

Okay, first don't grovel as that will be a major turn off. If he is with someone else, look inside yourself and ask why you are considering wanting to be with him again??????? As for the easiest way to forget-ah, "easy" isn't part of the real deal. Break ups hurt and attempting to avoid that hurt will only have it slap you in the face at some later date. Why not put the "man thing" on the shelf for awhile and focus on yourself, your life, your friends-all the things that often fall by the wayside when with a man.

Answer 3

I would not even consider him.....what is the matter with you? If you don't want to go through life being treated in a disrespectful, degrading way then you had better decide what your standrards are, sweetie. You want to accept crumbs and that is what you will be getting. Stop compromising yourself for some assshole.....get on the right track and have some self-respect.

Answer 4

hey girl
the best way for me to get over a guy is to go out have fun hang with your friends for a while try something new go on a vacation get a way from him for a while
you may still have feelings for him but is it worth having your heart broken over and over again or not being able to trust the man you love and how do you know he want do it again
it's hard to love someone who dose not love you back and if he is cheating on you he dose not love you

Answer 5

first step,get rid of whatever reminds you of him,work on urself.Dont be a wreck or go about beggin to have him back.Make urself a lady every guy wants to be with n move on.he sounds like a looser to have been cheating and is so ok about it.I think you deserve better.think about the great chances you have and live up to it.U won't want to wasye ur time on a cheat would ya?

Answer 6

i know its not easy and i feeeel you but you have to put in mind that things turn out this way and ended for a reason,you both weren't meant to be together,its hard i know to accept that but you have to to go on! iam not for the idea go and date another,no take your time and enjoy being single! and be sure things will be good soon!

Answer 7

trust me hun! we all went thru that but you just can't press a button and make the pain and the LOVE go away so the best solution is time and distance if you need any one IM me

Answer 8

for me it is very easy to get over a boy unless i really love them do other things besides sit around and thimk of all the things yall did together but i wouldn't jus jump into another relationship

Answer 9

send him flowers. but tip da guy and ask him to leave the stems (epecially roses) that will give revenge. then u can spot another one and soon u wont want him. trust me;'

Answer 10

date a guy of a different race