ok I was dating this boy for about a year he was my first as well as my first true love. We broke up a month after our one year anniversity. I had moved on after 3 moths of being single. An found someone else that I fell in love with less than a month. He felt the same way about me. I wa still in love with my ex so I would do things for him out of love and not out friendship. I love the one that Im was with but we broke up 2days ago. He was everything he was cool and laid back . He caught texts and phone numbers from different men. But he forgave me and still stuck around. I love my ex and my ex ex. But I confused about what should I do.
2006-08-15 11:07:49 · 31 answers · asked by mE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Closer is what you need to do from your ex ex. So that the one you love and broke up with two days ao. Can love you as you say and you want have to worry about anything or anybody else.
2006-08-15 11:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that you're just infactuated with the both of 'em. If you were somewhat cheating on your ex, then it's obvious you didn't love him as much as you think you did. So I'd say you love your ex-ex more b/c you sacrificed your relationship with your ex for him. The ex seems to be a better catch, but it's clear that you're more into the ex-ex. Sometimes what we need and what our hearts wants are two different things. You just have to decide between the need & the want. Which would you rather have? Someone you need like your ex or someone you want like the ex-ex?
2006-08-15 18:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young, however, I may be wrong about that. The best thing you should do is let them both go and try to spend some quality time with yourself. I don't mean this to sound mean, but you almost sound as though you want your cake and eat it too. You like this about this guy, and that about the other. You need time to find yourself. It would be the nest thing you could do for you and them. I wish you the best, no matter what you choose.
2006-08-15 18:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats for you to decide and noone else but you. Maybe you should talk things over with both of them. Which one will before there for you when your hurt or will stick up for you or cares about you the most. But who ever you stick with give them respect dont keep txting your other ex becasue that will turn him off.im not sayin this wont be hard and you still wont have feelings for one but just think about some of those questions. i know youll do the right thing. good luck.
2006-08-15 18:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we fall in love... the love doesn't stop. It just changes. Kind of like clay. We mold our love with a specific person... sometimes that sculpture will get broken... but the pieces are still there. The love is still there. My best advice is to move on, and continue loving.
2006-08-15 18:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget about being monogomous cause you just can't do it. If you are texting and messaging other guys while you are with someone and they don't know about it then you have major issues if not full blown problems. Cheating isn't only the physical connection with someone other than your significant other, but more so the emotional connections.
2006-08-15 18:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Amangela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had two great guys, and I don't think you need to need to take any action right away. Just let life calm down for a bit and when you feel sure about yourself, do whatever it is you decide to do. I think you'll be fine.
2006-08-15 18:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by dystopian_dreamer09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get hold of yourself and find out what you really want else you will end up being hurt.You seem to love the past when you are meant to be facing the future and that leaves the future unattended to.watch girlie before u get into another relationship.
2006-08-15 18:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey... it sounds like you need to really sit back and look at the problems you have and then get those sorted out... cause you shouldn't talk to other guys when you say you love someone... my ex-wife did that same thing that's why we are divorced now.... you get yourself sorted out and then weigh the pros and cons of both men... then decide what to do... but it sounds like you need to fix yourself first... sorry i don't mean to sound like a mean person but that's me being real...
2006-08-15 18:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some boy
2006-08-15 18:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋