he went to a different state for 2 monthes for family reasons we had been getting into aruments and then i got into his voicemaill and found out he was cheating om me what should i do? ive already broke up with him but it seems like hes off too easy...
2006-08-15 11:05:57 · 36 answers · asked by manda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Avoid playing games.
Just tell him it's over and move on. You deserve better.
2006-08-15 11:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be, let it go, make sure he seems unimportant to you, the more you try to be vengful, the more 'important' he knows he is to you.
He obviously hurt you, but at the same time, if you argued, and he was in a differant state, there was some really poor communcation going on, wiether it was you upset because he didn't call you at a certain time, or maybe he didn't let you know when you could call him, or something, or he didn't respond promply, Those are all things taht cause arguments, long distant, and it cuases the male to get scared, and perhaps run off.
But at the same time, he should have called you, he should have missed you, and he should have told you where he was going, because you were his partner.
understandable, it just really wasn't meant to be, and you should let it go, and realize he just wasn't right for you.
2006-08-15 11:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? Revenge? Let it go!
You already broke it off with him; that was a good decision, now stand by it and move on with your life! Not worth the time or energy to put anymore in to it!
Have some dignity and self-respect, gal!
2006-08-15 11:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what more do u want? you caught him cheating and you broke up with him? seems like u want revenge, but that won't really solve anything..in the end, he still hurt you and it takes time to get over. in a couple of months u will forget about it, just move on.
2006-08-15 11:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lana L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you broke up with him [how can he be cheating if you left him]
2. you were spying on him hacking into his privacy [even if he was cheating that doeasnt give you the right]
3. Let it go find a better person and try again
2006-08-15 11:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the best thing you could've done for yourself b/c you deserve so much better than him. Just cut him off completely. It seems like he got off easy, but the point is that he just lost a great girl.
2006-08-15 11:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go!!! It's obvious he doesn't care about your feelings because if he did he would have told you he met someone else and broke up with you instead of cheating on you. Focus your energy on something else. My motto is "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else"!!!!!
2006-08-15 11:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Creole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't get off easy- he lost a great thing- YOU. Don't do anything for revenge. Be the bigger person and just move on to someone who deserves you.
2006-08-15 11:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bebe1016 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already broken up. Leave it at that. Now walk away, leaving him behind. Don't talk to him, accept his calls, visits, gifts, messages or any other overature he might make.
He made his choice. Let him deal with his own guilty conscience... if he has one.
2006-08-15 11:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the nature of your relationship, i.e. casual or married with or without children. What is he getting off easy from?
2006-08-15 11:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋