i have a guy friend and he likes me a lot more than a friend but i dont i just wanna be friends.
he asks me out all the time and i always tell him no hes not my type i wanna be friends but he is so desperate
he started bribing me to go out with him today with expensive jewelry
should i stop hanging out with him
2006-08-15 11:02:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, tell him that he either stops or the friendship ends.
2006-08-15 11:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should not hang out with him any more, I would think that his bribing you would make you feel dirty, like you can be bought just as a common prostitute would be bought. I would encourage any daughter/friend of mine to stay away from a guy like that because it will lead eventually to problems...ie: I have given you so much and you just take and take now it is time for you to give me...something you dont want to give...
Good luck.
2006-08-15 18:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Walter J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's bribing you? He could simply be expressing his feelings. If the gifts and his moves really bother you then let him know it makes you uncomfortable. If he has explicitly referred to the gifts when asking you out, though, then it's probably a good idea to return the gifts and end the friendship.
2006-08-15 18:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be strait up with him! Maybe when you tell Him he's not your type you don't take a serious tone with him let him know that you just want to be friends!
By taking these gifts you are leading him on if just want to be his friend then don't take expensive presents from him! that will make him think you want to be more then his friend!
Just be honest stop giving mixed signals!
2006-08-15 18:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with him, he is your friend, just don't do anything extra like go out with him when he gives you stuff. And don't accept anything from him. And what is your type? What do girls mean when they say not my type? I am not trying to be mean but I bet you really don't have a type.
2006-08-15 18:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your going to have to stop hanging out him. His feelings for you aren't just going to stop and if he isn't accepting your "No" to going out then there's just nothing left for you to do. Hopefully he'll get over his feelings after sometime apart and then you can become friends again.
2006-08-15 18:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bebe1016 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hanging out with him. He's clearly not respecting your boundaries and he thinks he can buy your affection. Shut him out of your life. This "friendship" isn't worth the aggravation.
2006-08-15 18:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by m&m_manic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By accepting these gifts you are giving him all kinds of false hope and that's not fair. You could be really cool and make it your mission to hook him up with someone else. It's a touchy spot...I'm glad I'm not in it.
2006-08-15 18:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah he likes u and hes just trying reallly hard
2006-08-15 18:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-15 18:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by gelcoolgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋