Assume that he did not cheat, & at the moment it happened he did not know it was happening and it was irreversible. Also assume that the note I'm sorry or I love you (or something else u suggest) is included in a bouquet of flowers sent to ur office.
2006-08-15 10:57:58 · 42 answers · asked by morichka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even unintenionally, harm is harm. When you hurt someone, say, "I apologize," or "I'm sorry-- I didn't mean to hurt you." You can follow with "I love you," but you can say those three little words too much, you know, so you love thinks you don't mean it, too, so always remember to apologize if you cause harm.
2006-08-15 11:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man has an conscious he will not cheat no matter what. Had to much to drink out with the boys that sortof thing. A woman wants a man that would fight to get her. Its hard to accept flowers at your office because it gets all emotional. Its better to meet her in person invite her over to your house. Explain that you had no intentions of hurting her. You know its going to be hard to have her trust you again. Im sorry is not going to make it. If you really want the relationship be honest. Tell her It might take time to have you trust her again. That you would wait a couple months to truely show her no one else matters. That you would sacrafice an object or thing for her whatever it is let it not be go without showering. Women dont want flowers because a man is sorry its almost like we are bought. We cant be bought. If she wants to trust you slowly and still be with you than you must show her how you love her. Scream her name, Write her a poem, Bring her to a fancy restraunt, Pay for a spa treatment. Do things for her that women like. Whatever you do romance her.
2006-08-15 11:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 07:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by bradberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I have learned:sorry is not enough-it doesn't mean anything until /unless followed by an understanding of what was done and a swearing that it will not happen again and an honesty of why it happened in the first place. Also, I love you is not enough if it is only words-so, if you are truly sorry and truly love her, show her and tell her both, not just with flowers but with your actions, behavior and heart.
2006-08-15 11:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by birdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to hear both... along with an explanation as to why i was hurt.
as for the flowers, that's a tough call because i know at least in our office flowers almost always mean someone's in the dogg house. then she has to explain to all her co-workers what happened which is not fun. Do something more personal for her depending on the severity of the screw-up. Good luck!
2006-08-15 11:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was unintentional there are no words of solace necessary. You should understand that there are things in life that we allow to unintentionally and intentionally hurt us. The way you feel is only yours to control. The pain you felt whether intentionally or unintentionally caused only hurts when you let it. It takes a lot of discipline to adopt new conduct but it is not impossible and it will prevent a lot of needless suffering.
2006-08-15 11:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm sorry" in owning up what ever it is you "unintentionally" did.
It's taking some kind of responsibility . I love you is great, but in your case I'd go with" I'm sorry for being such an insensitive moron".
then, top it off with a nice bouquet of Tulips or sunflower... Not Roses (to common) or send an Orchid (that's more sensual) and smother her with little kisses until she giggles!
2006-08-15 11:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by la dolce vita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He better include both of those things. The flowers hand delivered would be better. Sincerity in the eyes and a tight hug always make a difference.
2006-08-15 11:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you include both? Maybe I'm sorry and I love you forever?
but if you can't i think I would rather have I'm sorry cuz it shows that you are humble and u realize u messed up and feel really bad. Good luck!
2006-08-15 11:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to hear a sincere, "I'm sorry", in person; maybe a sweet gesture, not necessarily flowers, taking me to dinner at the restaurant of my choice, doing something just for me, or having great sex, or just showing special attention for a few days.
Don't grovel; I don't like that.
2006-08-15 11:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by deonne r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋