yeah so I met this guy through my work, and I've been working him since June...but we don't work together a lot. So thanks to facebook, I found him and asked for his screen name. I finally asked him if he be interested in hanging out, and he asked what I had in mind, cause his friends were having a small get together w/ drinks. So he invited me to that, and I did go. It was a good time, except our one assistant manager showed up. It was real weird. But he had to walk her out to her car, and he was gone for awhile, and I gave him funny looks when he came back. He said to me, It isn't what you think. When I left the next morning he said we should hang out again
But anyway, I called him 2 days later to see if he would want to see a movie, and he said he wasn't sure what he was doing, and he would call me back. He never called me back that night. He signed onto AIM tho, so I asked what happened to him, but he didn't respond, so I wasn't sure what was up with that.
So yeah im confused
2006-08-15 10:48:21 · 9 answers · asked by malkin_to_the_pens 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. I had to stay because we were drinking..and a cop had came because of a noise complaint.
2. i dont see anything wrong with dating/liking someone from work...especially if it's American Eagle! lol
2006-08-15 11:19:21 · update #1
i mean, if he wasn't interested, he wouldnt have said "we should hang out again?" i don't know. i told one of his friends about it, and he said to me, well he forgets to call me back all the time. it happens, doesn't it?
2006-08-15 12:06:13 · update #2
think maybe you shouldn't keep on contacting him or asking him, he may think ur annoying if u do it too often, let him talk to you next time or wait for his call to explain. if he doesn't then the possibility that his interested in you is low.
2006-08-22 18:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep contacting this person you could have a sexual harrasment lawsuit on your hands and possibly a police record. Please take this advice, if he wanted you, he would tell you. Not by dropping hints or making mysterious plans for nothing but actually taking you somewhere on his own without other people there as a buffer. Hes just trying to be nice and I think you need to back off before it becomes a problem for you.
I am not trying to hurt your feelings or anything like that, its just dating someone you work with can be quite tricky. They have to be nice because they work with you but might not really like you, yet they dont want to breed contempt atwixt coworkers and themselves
2006-08-23 14:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be confused. He doesn't like you enough. Stop contacting him because your only going to get used by him. Never pursue a guy who isn't fully interested in you. It will get you nowhere.
2006-08-15 17:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh... "When I left the next morning..." Thats reason #1!
Reason #2: You work together!
NEVER DIP YOUR PEN IN THE COMPANY INK!!!
2006-08-15 17:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cogito Ergo Sum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes blowing you off in a rude manner. he should at least tell you hes not interested or whatever. I hate that sort of crap.
2006-08-15 17:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Buzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 pt
2006-08-15 18:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sound like he not interesed in you. and you need to leave him
along.so look for someone else. dont waste time on this
one.
2006-08-23 00:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in you.
2006-08-15 18:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you know this..."player will love you when they are playing"....get it...?
2006-08-22 18:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋