i really am in love with my fiancee, but i want more out of our sex life...
2006-08-15 10:22:50 · 18 answers · asked by hotmama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For a start, you need to always stay beautiful and attractive to him. Don't make up excuses for not doing so... like you're busy and do not have time for yourself. Wear perfume appropriately especially when you're dating and you're up to for sex. Try "Light Blue" for instance... or another brand that he likes. Always remember that men are both visually- and scent-stimulated (fresh scent or perfume scent). Wear sexy lingerie when sleeping... men always love to cuddle and feel the soft, warm and smooth skin of the woman they love. Oversize shirts and pyjamas does not elicit desire from a man, nor being explicitly naked. Both leaves no space for men's lustful and naughty imagination. Men need to explore. They desires variety. On casual days at home and outside, I personally like women who show a little skin appropriately like wearing a sleeveless blouse, or a dress that is cut above the knee. It shows femininity or womanness.
Stay sweet and flirt with him in bed. Don't expect him to initiate sex always. Show your interest and desire for him. This will make him feel wanted and desirable. Try initiating role-plays. Be playful and act randomly in every sex you have with him. Act as a mean mistress mistreating a man. Put him on his stomach and spank him and don't make him talk. You should act consistently during the act as if you're a different woman. Try other roles that you think you're comfortable with.
Speak out and communicate with him. Talk about sex, your interests and desires. Make him talk as well about his own fantasies. Be open to one another and explore your sexuality together.
2006-08-15 11:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by bad day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fetishes are great! Just don't get too carried away...have fun and enjoy each other. Bringing a 3rd party into it has a lot of drawbacks...I'd advise against that. Grab a Penthouse Variations magazine and read it together. The reaction of his dick will be a dead giveaway on what he likes. You might like to read it when he's giving you head (great "O"). Toys are fun, but don't get numb to normal stimulation. A woman taking charge is really erotic to a man and might also trip your trigger ("O"'s when you want and how you want). All I know is I wish I was him.
2006-08-15 17:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by strong and soft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex wherever you go. Dress really sexy at night. You have to heat it up, if you leave it up to him, than nothing will happen. Do it in your car.
On a chair.
In the closet.
At the beach.
At the movies.
Just have fun with it. Remembe, you start it.
2006-08-15 17:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk dirty, send him sexy text messages throughout the day, have sex at random times of the day and in random places, buy some toys, watch porn together, read penthouse letters together....
2006-08-15 17:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ken 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what makes me want to have sex... Its when a girl comes oun naked exept for a thong or g-string and they start to give me a hand job or making out with me....mmmmmmm
2006-08-15 17:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and join a porn shop. Borrow DVD's of female and male directed porn and follow suit. PS: Make sure it ain't the violent kind...
2006-08-15 17:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have awesome games you can get. Videos work, role playing, and in places where you can get caught, talk about a rush!!
2006-08-15 17:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by shewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different positions and buy the book kamasutra too
2006-08-15 17:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by chaopred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend coming to see me twice a week.
2006-08-15 17:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex in random places
2006-08-15 17:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋