How do I get him to tell me how he REALLY feels? How should I start to ask the question & how do I stress why the truth is important to me? I need an honest, straight foward answer from him that isn't sugar coated.. help!
2006-08-15 10:15:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already know. You just won't be quiet and let the sound in.
If a guy is into you, he will let you know in no uncertain terms.
If he is fishing for bootie, he will piddle around. Yes, one day, no, the next, depending on whether he is horney.
If he is hanging back or way quiet and not looking at you, you know you need more than that.
Quit waiting for guys to tell you what they want, and GO GET what YOU want.
I don't mean to chase boys who are not interested. I mean, be someone interesting, have hobbies, a cool job, care about other people, volunteer. Be somebody, and you will be fine by yourself. Then, If you see a guy who is worthy of your time, you can check him out.
Boys/men will be magnetized by a real person who doesn't have to have a man in her life to function.
2006-08-15 10:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand something. Us guys don't just tell how we feel. Example: If we hang with the guys when we get home we know just as much about the guys personal life as when we first started to hang out. Which from my understanding is completely opposite of women. go figure :P
2006-08-15 17:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you truly wanting his answer or do you only listen to what you want him to say? Sometimes girls (and guys) are so starry eyed in their relationship that anything that has the appearance of backing away or taking it slow is not acceptable and they don't even see it. When he's ready, he'll tell you. In the meantime, you probably need to listen to what he is NOT saying.
2006-08-15 17:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...when you tell a guy straight forward that you like him, we wil automatically back himself up. so don't do that guys don't like that, I have 2 brothers so I know. If you wanna know, do little things for him and just see how he will react, that will give you signs if he likes you, and make sexy eye contact but DO NOT STARE!
2006-08-15 17:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weLL,, u can taLk to him about schooL subject,, teacher,, or what's hip today. don't forget to ask about himseLf. everybody Loves to taLk about himseLf rite? and anyway,, i have the same probLem with u. my friends toLd me that my crush might be have a crush on me too--from the stories i shared them. but i just dunno,, i want the truth from him,, not another endLess hope.. the truth is important to me--or u too?--because i just don't want myseLf getting hurt..
2006-08-15 17:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by mariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straigt forward with him.
"How do you feel about me?"
"I need to know because I don't want to be played around with.. I'm tired of games, and I want to know what's for real. Do you see this relationship happening?"
etc, etc, etc.
2006-08-15 17:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone and if he likes you he will be knocking at your door. Remember you can't make him do anything. Just let him come around.
2006-08-15 17:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sapphira♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell him that you really want to know, and assure him that whatever he says, he won't suffer for it.
2006-08-15 17:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out and ask him
2006-08-15 17:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he don't want to hurt your feelings.
2006-08-15 17:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋