I am dating this new guy who is very cute, treats me well, the whole nine. We had sex last weekend and he is so hairy EVEYWHERE it was disgusting!!!!!! Should I ask him to wax for me????
2006-08-15 10:12:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he treats you good and all that then the hair should not matter i mean when u really like someone u do not try and change them but u can try and ask him too but then he may feel that u do not accept him for him i mean how bad is it really i used to feel the same way about some of my bf's but i grew to accept them for who they were and then it did not bother me so bad because u can learn to ignore what u feel are their misperfections if u really do like them.
2006-08-15 10:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
The boob job comparisons are a little much, maybe if you asked him to get a penile enlargement, then we'd be in the same ball park. It's more like him asking you to wax your nether regions or change your hair color.
Massive amounts of body hair is a HUGE turn off for me so I don't envy your predicament. You could ask gently, tactfully if he could wax, or use trimmers and take a lot of vitamin E. If he won't, you have to decide if it's worth it to stay with someone who grosses you out every time he takes off his clothes, regardless of his other attributes.
It's not an easy predicament for him to be in. Any one who's waxed or watched the 40 year old virgin knows it's going to be a painful process. I really don't know how you get over something that you are repulsed by though, which is your only other option if you choose to stay with him.
2006-08-15 18:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by m&m_manic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that would be a good idea. Can you imagine how much that will hurt his ego ? Its like you getting naked in front of a guy and him asking you to get a boob job or something. I'm sure he knows he can wax and has chosen not to. You'll only hurt him by saying it. If its disgusting for you then maybe you shouldn't date him. Hair doesn't go away. And can you imagine the stubble situation between wax sessions ? Ouch.
2006-08-15 17:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really truly bothers you and you plan on being with this guy again and for a long time then yeah I would suggest you ask him to shave. If it's as good a realtionship as you say it is then he should understand. Don't be rude about it but don't talk down to him either be honest but nice. see ya
2006-08-15 17:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Trish H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO....just think of him as a big teddy bear. I mean come on for some reason girls and women love teddy bears but some don't like hair on a man. I ask you what is up with that???
2006-08-15 17:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever thought that he may like his hair and that its not all about you?? You can ask him to shave, but if you can't deal with it then find someone else instead of expecting him to change for you
2006-08-15 17:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling my boyfriend has hair in unattractive places so I take care of it for him and then after I do it I always tell hiim how sexy he looks so it doesn't hurt his ego
2006-08-15 17:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by chelsetoots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, yes!!!!
Most guys aren't even aware it's an issue until it's broached. But be sensitive, it may never have come up before.
2006-08-15 17:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um it is totally up to you. If you JUST started dating him then wait a bit before asking, but definitely let him know your wishes sooner or later
2006-08-15 17:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends; would you get implants *merely* if he asked?
No, the situations aren't identical, but they're analogous.
2006-08-15 17:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by comicards 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋