OK....on the real.....I think I love my roomate.....BD, ex.... We have a business deal and I want more. I am suppose to help him financially with a current debt and he in return is to take care of me and my child.....that's all, nothing else. I constantly get mixed signals from him. Inviting me to go out with him and his friends, inviting to take me where I want to go, calling for no reason to check to see if i am ok, questions as to who i am dating, if i am coming home etc. And then, there is the look in the eyes and him turning to the romantic music stations to sing to me every chance he gets. This can be rather confusing considering he said he had no romantic feelings towards me and that this was strickly a business deal. Well, my question is, should I continue the business deal or move out? I Want More.....
2006-08-15 10:10:40 · 14 answers · asked by Mid S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why second guess it all? Tell him what you've just said here. Then you'll know...
2006-08-15 10:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him and see how he responds, if he wants more you'll know if not than move out. never believe what they say because it seems his body language is telling you more and he's been burnt in the past and is finding it hard to take that leap. Either that or he's gay and still in the closet. This one can be embarrassing but has happened. Girls get crushes on gay guys all the time because they tend to be so intouch with what we need but just can't be with us physically. That would explain his need for wanting strictly a business deal.
2006-08-15 17:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the business deal at all. You're paying him to take care of you? I think you need to talk to him. Tell him what you just said, help him out, or move him out. Don't pay him to be there.
2006-08-15 17:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask your roommate to be careful how he expresses himself because your perception is in direct contrast to his words. Explain that you see yourself feeling more and that his mixed signals are confusing. If it is strictly business then act as if it were. If things don't change run for the hills, you're gonna get hurt.
2006-08-15 17:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is sending you mixed signals, he may have mixed emotions about you, too.
If you want to have a relationship with him, hang in there awhile. If you don't, move out.
Quit trying to figure out what HE wants and spend that energy figuring out what YOU want.
You already know the answer to your question.
2006-08-15 17:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand the deal . You are taking care of him financially and he is taking care of you? What? How? I do not get it. Who is paying the bills here? If it is you then you're possibly getting taken for a ride.
2006-08-15 17:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by chick a dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue the business deal (to avoid legal tangles) and get out. Do you really want someone who'll lead you on like that?
2006-08-15 17:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mix business with pleasure or you may get the shaft!! If you can't contain your feelings then move out if ouy can
2006-08-15 17:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him business and love dont mix
2006-08-15 17:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date other guys and see what his reaction is. You'll know pretty quick. Women can read a guy like a book. You'll know.
2006-08-15 17:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋