I'll say I can count the number of girls that I've slept with on one hand. My GF....well, I can't say the same (for boys that is...she's not gay).
It bothers me...not because I'm insecure but because it's kind of gross.
What is your personal limit before a guy is off your radar screen?
2006-08-15 10:08:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the past is the past.. as long as he is clean, its all good.
2006-08-15 10:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by C-BIZZLE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1.. I believe in second chances, not a third or fourth.. we can all make a mistake, but if someone has been with more than 1, they're too cheap and careless for my taste!
(If someone has slept with 2, 3, 4... what makes you think you won't be just another one? Obviously he's repeated partner-change more than once in his life.. trust me, the more they've slept with in the past, the easier it is for them to move on to the next one.. and NOTHING will equal the first one.. so I think you'd have a great advantage in your relationship if you do it right, the first time, and take your time for it so you don't blow that first chance).
Yes it is gross.. I mean, how intimate and private is something when others have been right there where you are before.. several.. And how much do the words "I love you" mean, when he's said those exact same words to other girls?
I think that how much it bothers you or not, says a lot about how much dignity and pride you have.. if you're worthless, your expectations will be lower too.. if you have resisted cheapness all your life, and set higher standards for yourself.. you have every right to expect the same from the guy.
2006-08-15 10:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by reageer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5
2006-08-15 10:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
saposably my man has been with two and im his 3rd one?? but honestly honestly, i dont believe it i think he had more! just the fact that he was exposed to a lot of party'n enviroment and once ppl get drunk...things happen ..
but yeah, i never really thought of it but yeah it would be dirty nasty if he was with more than 6..yuck!
if your girl has slept with more guys than you been with girls,
damn, thats crayzie, (its usually the guys that beat the #).make SURE your using condoms! its not even worth getting nasty bacteria and germs from a # of other guys and the girls they were with and ppl those girls were with! yuck! think about it! so if your not married make sure your using condoms no matter what! those germs will eventually travel to your liver and cause hepatitis C... be careful!
2006-08-15 10:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preferably none but the past is the past and as long as hes clean its all good!
2006-08-15 11:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by love_basketballgurl09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are clean there is nothing gross, dont hold the past agianst someone and let it hold you back from what could be a great relationship. We all have pasts thats why they are in our past, we cant change it now, but can change the way we are.
2006-08-15 10:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by tommi_williams2002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I might seem crazy, but one is the limit. Preferably none.
2006-08-15 10:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me, because I feel that the past is the past. But it is still interesting to know...
2006-08-15 10:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
less than 3
2006-08-15 10:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you say it is gross? if she has had a few partners then she is probably good at making a guy feel good. don't worry about it as long as she is STD free and doesn't screw around on you.
2006-08-15 10:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋