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I receive daily emails from a dating / relationship expert and he says you don't have to be rich and handsome to attract women. He says that regardless of a man's looks and status, he, even if he is of less than average looks and with little money, can attract women - even gorgeous ones - if he knows how to push their "attraction button". Most of his emails center around this notion. He then expands upon that notion by teaching various techniques that are designed to help the reader learn the secrets of attraction. What I'd like to know, is he right? Do things really work this way for a man who is looking to hook up with someone? Your input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

2006-08-15 10:01:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I am not a girl but I couldn't help but answer it. to answer your question - Yes he is right for one category of women and he is partially right about the remaining. It is true that Attraction is what drives women's attention. It is the same reason most girls often fall for jerks. Attraction is something even they cannot explain why or how lest control it. Women get intrigued by certain traits topping the list is confidence, attitude, funny and personality. So my advice to you is try to build this qualities in you and do not pay a huge attention to that guys email. .. good luck.

2006-08-15 10:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by GoodGuy 3 · 0 0

Personally, I feel that by reading one or many books regarding techniques/tips etc, on how to meet the right person, is definitely not the solution...sure, it may help a little, but it's YOU that has to do the real work.

In my opinion, I believe that real friendship is feeling completely natural with each other...just being yourself and not trying to be someone you're really not, by trying to impress them. Like they say, it's truly what's inside that counts! You can have a hot body, be very popular or have lots of money...that's not gonna get you the true relationship that you so very much deserve. Most importantly, open communication in ALL relationships is just another key factor for a successful relationship!

Hope this helps 'ya just a little...Follow your heart! :-)

2006-08-16 19:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by cdngal64 1 · 0 0

Yes. But it all depends on the girl you atract in the first place. Women want to feel secure and loved most of all. My boyfriend is cute and I think he is very handsome and I love him to death but he doesn't have any more money then i do and I'm not rich. He knows what turns me on and he keeps it interesting and he loves me back the way I love him. You can have all the money in the world but it won't make you happy. You can have little money but if you have someone that loves you it can make you feel on top of the world. You just have to know how to keep the girl interested. Notice things women love it when you notice things like a new shirt or a hair cut. You just got to pay attention to what they want to hear and let her know you really care about her.

2006-08-15 17:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by pinkbunnylol 3 · 0 0

well his right,but it all depends on the gurl really. I mean gurls are generally more emotional and thoughtful than guyz and therefore are more likely to overlook a guyz looks,pocket etc.just as long as his gat a good personality and sees that he goes out of his way to make her feel special and do things for her,the she will automatically feell attracted to him. its just the way life goes around. Tw xxx

2006-08-15 18:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

to some extent i think he may be on to something. guys just have to know how to get women and know that not all women are looking 4 money and handsome. :)

2006-08-15 17:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by funlovingcaligurl 2 · 0 0

HE IS CORRECT BECAUSE IF A MAN KNOWS HOW TO TREAT A LADY/WOMAN WITH RESPECT AND LOVES HER FOR WHO SHE IS THEN I SEE NOTHING WITH THE ATTRACTION

2006-08-15 17:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by carmen j 1 · 0 0

hell yes hell no or just maybe so!!!!!!!!lol

2006-08-17 09:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by marquitalovesu 2 · 0 0

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