My boyfriend is letting me borrow a truck that belonged to his dad before he passed away. I've been using this truck to apply for jobs and I'm finally getting hired at the end of the month for a job. Well, my boyfriend's brother and his wife have moved back home now. They both have a car of their own, but for some reason they just took the spare keys to the truck one day and drive it all the time! This pisses me off because they both have their own car and I don't have one, that's why I've been driving the truck. And I'm a little scared to stand up for myself because this isn't my truck and I'm not family yet. (My bf and I have been dating for 4 years though.) What should I do about this?
2006-08-15 09:53:14 · 10 answers · asked by Jenn 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask them to notify you when they arfe going to use the truck so if you have to go out you could just ask to borrow their car in return. Or stand up to them either or.
2006-08-15 17:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the brother had a good relationship with his father and that he thinks that the car was meant to be driven by family members only, it's perfectly understandable because you are not of his blood, you are not part of his family, and that really pushes his buttons, if it were your boyfriend's car everything would be okay, but it's not, you must understand that this is what he feels, if I were you I'd let him use the truck and find other means of transport. If you argue this will only put out the fire with gas, he will start to hate you and your boyfriend.
2006-08-15 10:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i desire them to strengthen up and stop enjoying telephone video games..........if your guy doesnt decide to speak to you he would desire to easily say so somewhat of utilising his bestfriend as a conceal...... or you will desire to start speaking up for your self and tell him you savour his interest on your persons and you will actual seem into hooking him up yet now's no longer the time to speak approximately it when you consider which you will decide to speak with your person boyfriend and you may take care of him later......... supply a female buddy who would have an interest his selection and function her call him or supply him her selection(after her approval) and function them communicate rapidly........... You dont would desire to be intermediary as a results of fact regrettably his desires are trumping yours and your boyfriend desires to maintain his buddy off the telephone together with his woman lots.........thats how subject starts off ;)
2016-10-02 03:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by strenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, why should this have even made it to this forum?? What the hell is your boyfriend doing about it??? If anyone is gonna stand up for your situation, it should be him. What does he say about it?
2006-08-15 18:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie.....you should quit relying on your boyfriends handouts and get your own vehicle!!!! You make us girls look bad by being so dependent on a man!!!!
2006-08-15 15:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up to them.tell them i need that truck. good luck.God Bless.
2006-08-15 10:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by wallyboy197819962001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your boyfriend about it. he'll find a way to get you a vehicle. dont be afraid to stand up for yourself.
2006-08-15 10:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by tovahh. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like THEY want to piss you off. talk to your boyfriend. there must be an agreement made between everyone. good luck.
2006-08-15 10:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u let me come over there so i can beat his bros *** for ya then ya wont hafta worry bout em...
2006-08-15 10:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss your problem withyour boyfriend. He is the one who should bring it up with his brother and the wife. See what he thinks is the best wat to deal with it.
2006-08-15 10:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋