My gal and I have been going out a while now (we're both teenagers), and last night we got a bit carried away and we ended up kissing and cuddling on the sofa whilst both topless. I feel guilty, but is this normal, or sex? I feel embarassed, like it's forbidden?
2006-08-15 09:52:46 · 15 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is normal.
2006-08-15 09:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty normal. But just in case for next time, don't let things get too carried away and make sure you have protection. Being responsible is all a part of it. It's not forbidden, but you do have to be careful. And make sure she's ok with it as well. Talk to her about it before you do anything you two may regret later.
2006-08-15 09:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by dimkaluv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to kiss and cuddle. Just be careful before it moves to the next step of having sex. If you are feeling guilty and embarrassed from just kissing and cuddling maybe you and your girlfriend need to have a talk or maybe you need to slow it down.
Sex is a big step in anyone's life and especially a relationship. Take it slow.
2006-08-15 09:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Topless--I'd say that's pretty normal for two teens caught up in the moment. However, that is heading towards territory you may not be ready for. Be careful, and try to keep the clothes on, particularly the bottoms.
(I will say, if either of you is under 15, that's going too far.)
2006-08-15 09:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by strenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that and no it is not sex it is called experimenting and no you did not go to far and no it is not forbidden i feel that the closeness of two bodies is the nicest feeling on earth as long as u have the will power to say no i am not going to let this go to far,
2006-08-15 09:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't feel right that's a sign that it wasn't right. Your not comfortable because your not ready and you have to mature a bit before you decide to do stuff like that. You'll know when the time is right........WAIT !
2006-08-15 09:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by smorgan1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds totally normal to me!
2006-08-15 09:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel guilty ? You did nothing wrong. Have a good time.
2006-08-15 09:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So very normal. And you couldn't call that "sex" by a longshot.
Damn crazy teens... ;)
2006-08-15 10:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly normal i wish i could have been with my boyfriend lastnight cuddling on the couch
2006-08-15 09:58:43 · answer #11 · answered by shatay e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋