My friend somehow got a hold of my screen name & password and she posted a question where in she said she cheated on her boyfriend my boyfriend saw this question and thought i wrote it and now he is upset with me what should I do? By the way I have already changed my password but about my boyfriend i mean what should I do?
2006-08-15 09:51:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what happened. If he knows this girl he will know that she is the kind of person who would do such a thing.
2006-08-15 09:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! That is really messed up. Why would she go to all the trouble of doing that? Be honest with yourself if you wrote it yourself come clean and tell your man the truth. If it doesn't work out then move on cause there are plenty of fish in the sea and hopefully you learned your lesson and wont cheat on the next...But if this is true and your friend did go through all the trouble of finding out what your screen name and password was then Ditch the *****. friends don't do things like that to each other. Second of all have her tell your boyfriend what she did..If she wont then all you can do is hope that your boyfriend will take your word over hers. I wish you the best!
2006-08-15 10:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised how many people say that the boyfriend here should trust you. That's good advice, up to a point. For example, if he were getting paranoid or something, then you could say that he needs to trust you. But after something like this where there's actual visible evidence of a problem, then he should get a little more leeway to doubt your word. At least it isn't his fault that he has to wonder about you! Instead of dumping your boyfriend, I suggest you dump your "friend!" I think you should try to get your "friend" to confess what she did to your bf, but he might not believe you anyway because you two are supposed to be "friends" and you could coach her to say that. You need to get her to confess herself and also stop being friends with her to have a chance at getting him to trust you again. Good luck!
2006-08-15 10:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's upset with you because something happened in the past that made it difficult for him to trust you again. If he doesn't believe you it's probably your own fault. Sorry. The only thing you can do is to tewll him the truth--ALL THE TIME-but, if that's not hte situation and he's a jealous, controlling jerk-then get rid of him!
2006-08-15 09:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend 2 stop going on ur screen name. omg, that is a bad friend! or u can change ur password then she cant get on it...also tell ur b-friend that u didnt rite that and maybe SHES the one that needs 2 tell ur boyfriend
2006-08-15 09:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by dancingurl_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing he should believe in you....but maybe she will tell him that she did this....does her know her very well...i would just explain it to him and he should be the type to understand...if he is not you really do not need anyone that does not believe in you...i would not let that girl around my computer or your password...that was not a very good friend i would have to say... least not to do something in your name that you would not approve of.....
2006-08-15 09:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dosen't believe you (and you are telling the truth) he is not worth the hassle, oh by the way, your friend needs a @ss whipping for screwing up your realationship. Good luck.
2006-08-15 10:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a message out to everyone that someone is typing as you. and you will be chancing your screen name. If possible give your friend names out, so everyone will know she did something to you. with that big of a deal, your bf should believe you.
2006-08-15 09:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares about you, he will believe you and you will get through it. If he hangs it over your head and doesn't trust you then you will know that he isn't the one and even though it will hurt for a while you need to move on.
2006-08-15 09:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by scratch golfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry sweety. What a horrible Friend you have. Look, just tell you're boyfriend know the truth, let him know EVERYTHING. (Try and see if your "friend" will fess up to it) But if he doesn't believe you, hen there isn't anything you can do about it...
God bless....
2006-08-15 09:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋