I find it hard to meet girls that are up to my standards...I know I am not asking too much either...I just want a beautiful girl that has at least a few common interests with me...where would be the most ideal place to find a girl? Dont say go to a place that I like...cause obviously if i like the place then i must go there A Lot...and i cant find them there...I need some ideas...be creative...but try to keep it a lil simple
2006-08-15 09:51:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i usually dont go out and say yes i am gorgeous for a male...cause that would be conceited right?...well if i must describe myself...i have had girls tell me i am gorgeous...but i didnt feel the same bout them...so there is my prob...
2006-08-15 09:57:57 · update #1
woodsak...WTF are you talking about?
I said that women think i am gorgeous...i didnt say I thought I was...i am not asking for a supermodel...just a girl that is beautiful to me...damn some of u people are just dumb@sses
2006-08-15 10:13:04 · update #2
Go to places where intelligent people go, like book store, the library, coffee shops, art museums....some kind of place where thinking is required.
2006-08-15 09:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the girl has to be gorgeous because that could be your problem there. I think if she is pretty, and have some things in common with you this should work out fine. You will never find the perfect woman or your idea of the perfect woman. Get to know some women that are just pretty and go from there.
2006-08-15 10:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I know how that feels, most of the girls aren't really that mature, in a way yeah but still, If you wanna find a gooood type of girl then go to places like a public library, flirt with any girl, I mean you might not like the chick you flirt with but hey she might have a hot friend so think bout that, for more advice just w/b, I help people all the time and don't charge lol, luck!
2006-08-15 10:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the person you want to meet. Whatever qualities you want in someone else - make sure you also have those qualities. If the standards for this girl your looking for aren't the standards you have for yourself, you'll have a really tough time.
Relax. It'll happen. If you're going to the same places and it's not working, go to different places. Go to a new park... go volunteer somewehere... You can find the perfect woman anywhere / anytime.
2006-08-15 10:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by A Tiger in Athens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Join a health club: solves two problems; you'll become less of a couch potato and more fit. Think of all the people you will meet. The friends you meet here will most likely be healthy, athletic and attractive. You'll look better and feel better at the same time.
2)Take a class, any class: again a two in one tactic; you'll learn something new and make new friends with similar interests. Conversation is easier if you have something in common.
3)Go to Museums: Many museums have special events and members only events. Become a member and meet lots of cultured people.
4)Got to sporting events: Go to sporting events of any kind; soccer, football, basketball, etc. Go to professional games or college games, guaranteed to have fun.
5)Go to Flea Markets and Antique Shows: While you're browsing the finds, you can people watch.
6)Play a Sport: Have you ever wanted to play soccer after watching a game on TV? Lots of towns have adult sport programs. Volleyball and tennis are common town recreational sports you could join.
7)Join a Book Club: Check this out at your local library. Reading books and sharing them is another great way to get to know people.
8)Join a Singles Group: Self-explanatory, there are many singles organizations out there that plan singles dances, get-aways, etc.
9)Volunteer: Help build houses for Habitat for Humanity; give out beverages at marathons, or join one of the many volunteer organizations.
10)Have a Party: Invite your friends and have them invite two friends and so on and so on.
11)Learn a craft: take craft classes at your local community center.
12)Join a Business Association: If you are a professional, join your local association. Network for your business and your personal life.
13)Go to High School/College Reunions: A great way to reconnect with your old best friend!
14)Get a Dog and Walk Everywhere: go to parks and the beach with your dog. Dogs are great people meeters!
15)Go to every Party you are invited to: even if you don't want to go...go. You never know who you'll meet.
16)Join an Investment Club: make money and friends!
17)Travel: go to the islands; Europe; talk to everyone. Learn about their culture.
18)Go to seminars: lots of people go to seminars alone; great place to start a conversation.
19)Go to Wine Tastings: sometimes local restaurants have a wine-tasting night.
20)Go skiing, snowmobiling, snowboarding
21)Take a yoga, Tai Chi class: relieve tensions and meet other enlightened people.
22)Get a new job: Is your job boring, going nowhere, maybe you need a change. A new job is a great place to make some new relationships.
23)Join a women's or men's group
24)Take up acting; go to acting workshops, help create scenery.
25)Talk to everyone, everywhere
As you can see, these are not difficult methods.
2006-08-15 09:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why try? I think that your standards seem a little high! What type of women are you after? Supermodel types! Just hang out, have fun and you will meet a great girl, with everything you need!
2006-08-15 09:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going at it totally wong-worry about yourself stop worry about miss perfect-you will find love when you least expect it-you are obviously expecting it any moment-not good- Take the time you have until that day comes to challenge yourself and improve who you are-it will be time well spent-maybe by then you will have the same interest as her.
2006-08-15 09:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School, a bar, a restaurant, the park, any place like that! Don't worry, I'm sure you'll find that great girl that you love really soon! I wish you the best of luck and let me know when you do okay!
2006-08-15 09:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are gripping yourself too tight, loosen up. If you think and carry yourself as though you are better or all that and know one is good enough for you, you will continually be a loner. you might even look and try to act as though you got it all, but you don't, trust me, you don't, because their are girls out their who are smarter than you and are as down to earth as the ones you turn down. I think you know all to well, of the girls you can't even stand next too, much less even say hello or good morning to them. your game is old and people see through it like a screen door.
2006-08-15 10:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well try the mall, bars, clubs, church, ... that is a hard one.. well lets say you see a girls and you think she's cute and you want to see if she's single. then thats where you need to grow some balls and just go up to her and say hi my name is blah blah and i think your very beaitful and it would be great if i can take you out! and thats that. and if she says not then on to the next one.. never take rejection at a bad thing take it as a good thing just knowing your not going to give up! Good Luck!!
2006-08-15 10:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by mama21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋