My boyfriend & I have been dating for 10 months, a few days ago his exgirlfriend added him on myspace & she commented him saying she was doing good but told him about how she had been with the guy she originally broke up with him for for 3 years. I gave him an out saying if he wanted to work out things with her I'd understand but he won't do it but I still worry alot because of the fear of losing him. I don't know how to handle my emotions because everytime I talk to him I think about how she might come back in the picture, considering she was his first love but she screwed him over really bad. I'm just a wreck and verry worried. How can I help my feelings change towards the situation and towards the bad thought of "them"?
2006-08-15 09:51:01 · 4 answers · asked by aliciamarie88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she just try to make u drive crazy jelouse from her
she is sad because her xbfriend choosed u and left her
be happy that u r the best
2006-08-15 10:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress yourself about her. If your bf really wanted to go back with her then wouldn't he do it already? It's because he wants U in his life; it's not his fault that his ex wants him back. But if you really want help, try calming yourself down, beby yourself alone in your room or a quiet place and take deep breaths for 10 minutes, try not to think about anything. Just concentrate on your breathing. Do it daily and you'll find yourself not so stressed out. If you're too stressed out sooner of later you and your bf will break up over something like this. If you really want the problem solved, ask him to talk to her about what she wants but if he doesn't want to, then talk to her yourself
good luck. don't worry if it doesn't work out with him, then just deal with it and move on
2006-08-15 10:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that he is with you..don't worry about the other girl--that's why she is the other girl. If he wanted to do something i'm pretty sure he would of said yes to your question.. Have confidence in yourself and don't worry about losing him!
2006-08-15 09:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by mexvero1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about her and worry about making sure you keep him and happy when as he wouldn't want to go with her if he loves you then you don't have to worry about her forget her for now unless you see them to getting to close then that's where you worry tell him how you feel and get how he feels about everything
2006-08-15 09:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋