need help because this guy that lives next door to me is cute and hes nice.he waves at me when he sees me everyday but hes 18 and hes going to the school that i graduated at.and im too shy to talk to him cuz im afraid of rejection since im fat n ugly and i dont look that good and it sucks that looks matter but i want a guy that'll like me for me and i want this guy cuz he sounds like a sweet guy and im afraid that when he goes back to school he'll fall for another girl so plz help me im too shy to say something.and its hard for me to be myself around people because im scared that ppl arent going to like "ME" because im fat and i seriously am i weigh 300lbs and only 5'6 so im fat im not just saying that im for real.and i have crooked teeth too.and i need help cuz i want guys to like me and i want this one to like me too because of my personality not my looks but i dunno if hes the shallow type or not so can u guys please help me?? give me some advice on how to talk to guys
2006-08-15 09:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by john cenas girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he waves at everyone and not just me,if he kinda knows them he'll wave,if not then he wont cuz he doesnt know many ppl in these apartments
2006-08-15 09:50:22 · update #1
Stop obsessing, go talk to him. He already likes you. Take it from there.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 09:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't do anything about the teeth, (unless you have $$$ for the doctors bill) but you can lose weight you know. Then you won't have to be scared about how others see you...... unless you just want to live the rest of your life that way. And he won't like you for you personality if you don't talk to him.
2006-08-15 16:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by BrownTown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will he like you if he doesnt know you? Be his friend first and as for appearance guys love girls that love themselves (less work for them). If you think positively of your self than it will be reflected in your appearance...look at all those overweight gorgeous people like Mo'Nique, Billie Holiday, Christie Alley, Queen Latifah etc.
2006-08-15 16:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by ------- 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need is a boost of confidence. Just walk up say hey and how are you today, tlak to him little by little. you never know how it will work until you try.
2006-08-15 16:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus hang around wit ur friends and ask them 2 hook u up wit him
2006-08-15 16:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by tuzsday r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can not make a guy like u, he has to like u on his own,didu try talking to him
2006-08-15 16:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant guys are to visual
2006-08-15 16:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is the right person because you are shy.
2006-08-15 16:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋