ok so theres this boy I like, but my friend likes him too! and he was kinda flirtin with both of us so this other girl finaly went up 2 im + told him that both of us liked him + told him he had 2 choose between us! he said he wouldn't! so what will I do now? is there any way I can help d situation or is it already ruined??
2006-08-15 09:40:20 · 24 answers · asked by random 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how u feel but dont make him think hes all that know what i mean. dont rush into it, let him decide naturally.
lucky get eh
2006-08-15 09:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by stretchy_baby69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the girl that made him choose kind of messed things up..He might have asked one of you when he felt the time was right..If he wont choose between you two then he might have feelings for the both of you and does not know how to choose..But i dont think the situation is ruined just give him time to think about it...
Im sure every thing will work out for the best .
2006-08-15 18:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by poppy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he wouldn't choose. He's getting attention from two girls that he's kinda feeling, so why should he?
So you're left with few options -
A - get into this constant tug of war for his affections between you and your friend with the probablility that he may or may not choose you in the end (this by the way can wreck your friendship - as he's going to milk this for as long as he can)
B - Drop him - if you want a relationship, you're not going to have one with him because he's not ready to choose.
C - If you're willing to just hang out, then do so.
Either way, if you're fooling arond with him, don't get carried away.
2006-08-15 16:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Pask 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa. Deva vu! Happened to me about 20 million times. not really, but you get the picture.
The situation may seem ruined, and maybe it is, but often times, some unknown variable in the big picture of life makes things turn a different direction. (oh, god, I sound like a fortune cookie!) Maybe he didn't want to hurt your friend's feelings by telling her he likes you!
I hope luck flies with you this night.
(sry. I've been reading a lot of old literature for my classes.)
~Mel~
2006-08-15 16:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by fireball33432 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why would he not choose between the two of you?
Ask yourself this... is your friendship worth trading for this guy? If so go for it, because most likely you will lose yor friend in the process. Stick with close friends for now.
Pastor B
2006-08-15 16:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you really like the guy. If she says tells you she likes him to, ask her if it would be ok if you went out wit him. Then, since you are friends, agree that whoever he picks you won't get mad. Then you ask the guy out. If he was flirting with you like you said he would probably say yes. Then since you and your friend agreed not to be mad you would have a boyfriend and you friend. Its a win win situation.
2006-08-15 16:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Black Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, not a nice friend! You should have both walked away from him. Cearly, she would have dated him even when she knew you still liked him.
Sorry to say it, forget about the boy and maybe look for new friends as well!
2006-08-15 16:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Whitelord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either be a ***** and take him for yourself, share him with your mate.. This is know he wont object to or you could be the best friend in the world and step a side and let your friend go out with him.
2006-08-15 16:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Coley61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing you both hun, what guy wouldn't like 2 girls fighting over him??
he's lapping up the attention while you both fall out over him.
if i were you I'd make arrangements with your friend to play him, then dump him.
he's laughing but don't let him have the last laugh!
2006-08-15 16:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on, that was NOT a smart move!!! asking some guy to CHOSE??!!! you're not a prize to be won! show guys that you respect yourself and you win, cause then they respect and admire u. be totally cool about it and don't run after him if u really want him. playing it hard to get is the only was to undo what happened. good luck babe!
2006-08-15 16:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Phoebe B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not going to choose by being asked like that. forget him for now and see what happens. he may just like to flirt but don't let anyone two time you
2006-08-15 18:26:18 · answer #11 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋