we share a mutual admiration but she doesnt want to speak about it until she get divorced. and honestly she is the girl of my dreams and that drives me crazy! ANy Tips !!!
2006-08-15 09:37:16 · 14 answers · asked by buzman78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has probably been hurt but is sounds like that she is open to getting closer to you so that sounds good.
When a girl has been hurt really bad more then once, she will give up on guys. I had too. You just need to show her that you are different then those other guys. Don't push her either. Let her come to you. She will eventually. If you love her, you will give her the time she needs.
Good Luck!
2006-08-15 09:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all the women in the world to get involved with, it's a married woman! there are so many, and i mean, so many single ladies just hoping that a nice man (are you nice?) like you would come their way. that woman does not need your advances to learn security or your love to teach her how to trust. stir clear! the Bible says that stolen waters are sweet, but at the end the bitter taste makes you wish you never had a drink in the first place.
2006-08-15 16:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by debbie o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an open book with your life and the things you do. The more she knows the more she can trust. Answer her questions and obviously, dont lie. Even a little lie will send things going downhill with someone that has trust issues. It takes time but if you do this she will have no other choice but to trust you.
2006-08-15 16:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is the girl of your dreams then show her by being there when she is ready to talk about it. If she has to get devorced first then respect her wishes. The best thing you can do is show her that she can trust you by not pushing her. You say she is the girl of your dreams you will wait til she is ready and wont push
2006-08-15 16:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient with her, but let her know that you are always there if she needs you. Then after her divorce is all over and done with and she feels comfortable around men again ask her to go out.
2006-08-15 16:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont pressure her, let her take her time so that when its all said and done you will know where both your hearts lie and there will be no doubts or insecurities. If she is the girl of your dreams then she will be worth waiting for and if not, well then......
2006-08-15 16:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes just getting stareted to get out of a relationship. Its going to take a lot of time to get over no matter if she loves/loved him or not. If your really intrested, youll have to be patient and understanding. Remember, they saw something in each other that made them want to get married. Its going to take time.
2006-08-15 16:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone trust you trust is something earned. If you want to earn trust just be there for her when she needs you but don't be pushy about things or you will push her away
2006-08-15 16:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Luna V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is respectful to wait untill she is finally devorced and don't force it just keep letting her know from time to time that you still care for her deeply. and wait for her. honestly no female trust any man.
if they say they do there lieing. so its not just her. ok. its all femals
give it time. if she is your true love it will be laters
2006-08-15 16:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by abbie24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do as she asks and wait till she is divorced. Then she will be more confortable and will build up your trust while your waiting. If you feels so hot for her then waiting should be worth it.
2006-08-15 16:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋