My Babyfather and i had gotten back together for our daughter sake because we was trying to make things work out between us but it didnt because i started noticing him changing after our daughter came he became alot controlling, jealous, possessive , been alot disrespect toward me and really verbal abusing me. And now we are not together anymore because i had no self esteem when i was with him i feel like i was nonthang so i left now that i am trying to move on with my life he have my best friend using me to get information to see if i am dating someone now i was just wondering why is he been like this after i have had his daughter can someone please make make me understand???
2006-08-15 09:36:16 · 13 answers · asked by cowanelmo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not about the baby honey, its about him and his real colors. If you best friend is working with him you can't call her a Friend. If he was at all interested in making the relationship work he wouldn't act that way. Make sure you are getting child support from him. Don't worry you deserve better.
2006-08-15 09:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by chicamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ya gotta find a new man AND a new best friend. Move. Leave. Take your daughter somewhere where you can focus on her and not his controlling bs.
2006-08-15 16:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Woz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is not nice! having someone trying to get up all in your business and running back to the jerk!
And speaking of jerks im glad that you left and i pray that u will meet someone who will treat like a queen because he sure wasn't treating u right!!!
2006-08-15 16:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Doc Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The baby is a heavy responsability and he blames you for that. He thinks he owns you now too, and he doesnt want you with other guy.
That best friend spying on you is no best friend at all, get rid of him/her. Go on with your life.
2006-08-15 16:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys do this only because of they dont want to lose there girlfriend or wife so hes doing this to stay with you but in the process it hurt ya relationship and hes checkin up on you using ya bestfriend so ya thats all i got for you i hope that helps
2006-08-15 16:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he wants to be the boss of you he doesn't want you to move he want you to come running back to him and if she was your best friend she wouldn't tell him anything don't get back with this guy let him be there for your child and that's it next thing you'll he's hitting you
2006-08-15 16:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was abusing you to make you scared and not live him but you did the right thing and left. now he wants to make sure there is now other man because he wants you forever.
2006-08-15 16:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he Polly thinks that you go back to him because you have his baby maybe because you to have a connection but even if that don't get back together for the baby it wil never work but good luck
2006-08-15 16:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by dawn l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he verbally abuses u then u did the right thing and left, tell him to stop uses your friend to get to you, and to ask u for hisself
2006-08-15 16:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his possessiveness that is still at work, some men are just crazy. I guess he wants you to be miserable, I dunno. But do not give away information. This sounds like he may even be stalking you. Be careful my dear!
2006-08-15 16:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋