I wanting to ask out this girl i met, im kinda of a big guy, i dont want to make her fell awkward when she sees me. for a big guy im not bad looking, we talk all the time and get along great, im afraid when she sees me it wont be good. should i go for it and ask her out or just not bother to put her in a bad postion?
2006-08-15 09:30:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really cares about you, she won't give a dam. Go for it homie, let me know what happens. Good luck.
2006-08-15 09:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just wrote here. That you are big but nice looking for a big guy. That will prepare her for who you are nothing more and nothing less. Some girls like big guys and some girls don't, that is her preference that she has a right too, and whether you tell her now or later will not change her preference, but be honest, because even if big guys are not her preference, she may be willing to look past it if she really likes you, and she won't feel decieved.
2006-08-15 16:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go head and ask her. If what you all have is already special. I don't think should count as long as you keep yourself up as a big guy, right personalitiy, she laughs at your k-jokes even the ones that are not funny. An she feels comfortable just by talking on the phone to you don't worry bout a thang.
2006-08-15 16:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her and she likes you back it shouldnt matter how you look. But to be corteous of ehr you could metion it to her or send her a picture just so she has a heads up. She may also flaws and be ok with hit. I still say if you like eachother it wont matter though so go for it and ask her out!
2006-08-15 16:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you talk to her, or invite her out say :"Hey suga i hope you don't mind a little extra meat on these bones" and see how she takes it. That way, when you see her in person she can't act surprised.
2006-08-15 16:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, but send at least a picture of your face first. If she starts talking to you about friendship you know that she changed her mind, and then you know that she may be shallow. good luck!!
2006-08-15 16:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is for you to send her a picture of you first.
then maybe later ask her out.
if she likes you she wont care.
ive gone out with ppl a little husky and i didnt care. i dont care bout the face. but the heart.
2006-08-15 16:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her your best headshot and full body photo. Let her decide. You'll be filled with anxiety over a face to face meeting otherwise.
2006-08-15 16:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you "met" here, but neither has seen each other before? dude, she might be a big girl, then y'all will have something else in common. then again, she might be what they call a "chubby chaser", you might hit the jackpot!!!
2006-08-15 16:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by daddysboicub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless she is completely superficial, if you connect on the phone, it shouldn't matter....give it a try....or just be honest before and and just straight out tell her...
2006-08-15 16:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by hethbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋