Why do women find it hard to say the 3 little words
(I love you)
why?
2006-08-15 09:28:14 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women...Know I love you are very special words that they do not want to toss around. They feel that its a unique word that should be said to unique people/person (ie family, lover, etc...) only!
Guys tend to say I love you just because girls think they want to hear them or just because a girl said it and they know they better follow it or else.
Guys really dont think real into the words as much as women do.
2006-08-15 09:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that women find it hard to say, they usually have to FEEL it deep in their heart. Most women will not say those 3 little words if they do not feel them. Of course there will be women that do say them to get what or who they want. I have never said it and not meant it. Give her time, if she loves you really loves you is will flow from her lips.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-15 16:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The brutally honest answer is that most of us with experience have had that repeated to us ad infinitum, but it wasn't meant. So, we've learned that we really don't want to say that unless we're absolutely sure we want to & we're almost certain that we won't be getting burned again.
By the same token, the same is true for many men, and it's the women who are asking the same question that you just did. It's one of those double edged swords, and it cuts both ways.
2006-08-15 16:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they aint ready to say those "little words" they mean ALOT. saying I Love you, I s kind of like a commitment. Im not going to say "I love you" to the guy I love UNTIL I'm sure that I love him. I mean I may love him with all my heart but it would be hard for me to say it and u know girls aint the only ones who have a hard time sayin il luv u, too.
2006-08-15 16:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy but they dont if they mean it my girlfriend says those 3 words to me almost every day (we've been going out almost 3 years though)
2006-08-15 16:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by sniper9802858 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women dont normally liike to lie about there feelings. If she isnt ready to say it just wait until she is so that is more speccial for both of you . You dont want her to lie to you just so you can hear hersay i love you.
2006-08-15 16:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If no one hasn't said it to you, maybe because it is not how they feel. Also, if your partner says "I love you" she will expect a respond. Maybe we are just to afraid to express ourselves and get turn down.
2006-08-15 16:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we're afraid of getting comitted to a relationship and we're afraid that you'll break our hearts when we fall in love with you
2006-08-15 16:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by john cenas girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Afraid of being rejected
2006-08-16 13:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by brandymcclain23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorryt o butt in but I though that the guys had that problem, maybe is just genetic you know!!!
2006-08-15 17:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋