he is making me so paranoid.
me and this guy I am seeing had a weird night last night, but we went to bed on good terms. I sent him a text like an hour ago and still haven't heard from him. Normally I hear from him by now.
He is making me crazy! I never get like this with guys.
2006-08-15 09:22:00 · 13 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chill out girl. stop stressing him. that's what he wants you to do. leave him alone and you'll see. he'll come to you.
2006-08-15 09:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to take responsibility for your emotions and your reactions. He isn't making you anything. You are reacting to him.
If you are needy and are dying to get a text back, that's you, not him. You can't control him by text-ing him and expecting him to get right back to you so you'll feel better.
You need to go do something else. Read, write letters to family, cook, ride a bike, play a video game---anything to break your obsession with what's going on.
You have to be a positive person for him to come back to. If, when he comes back, you're a needy basket case who dumps all sorts of hurt and emotions on him, you'll chase him away. Dump that emotion elsewhere.
2006-08-15 16:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just made you think you were on good terms before he went to bed so that he could hush you up...Maybe when he rose this motning, he just wasn't feeling the same...
2006-08-15 16:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by mesofemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is ignoring you on purpose. The only thing you can do is ignore him back. And pretty soon he will contact you. Actually this kind of situation happened to me.
I stopped contacting him and ignored him and some days after he contacted me...saying oh I miss those conversations we use to have....blah blah blah...Its time to play his game!!!
2006-08-15 16:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know actally what happened the night before so i cant really give a good answer, but if ya'll had a weird night maybe he's just thinking so just give him time.
2006-08-15 16:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just amke yourself busy and be patient, he has a life to and maty be busy, not to mention technology these days you cant always rely that your text will go through immediatly. if he is in roaming he may not receive the text until he is in his apprpriate area agin. dont stress im sure this a good reason.
2006-08-15 16:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
damn ur like me i finished talking to dis guy like an hour ago and i xdid'nt not want to get of the phone but he said he call me but i said i will call u when i have time and he said dat is f***ked up, u only call me when ur bored. do u think it is email plez im going crazy im listen to my fave song
2006-08-15 16:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some codependency books, Melody Beattie is a good place to start...
2006-08-15 16:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
can we say bipolar. I can say this because i'm with the same type of bf.
2006-08-15 16:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by brandymcclain23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may be busy don't come to conclusions so early
2006-08-15 16:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by arun_themask 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋