2006-08-15 09:20:50 · 45 answers · asked by jenncren0420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is mostly true. There are people who have cheated and then realized what is at stake and cleaned up their act.
2006-08-15 09:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dissect that saying "once a cheater always a cheater" it is saying if you cheated you will always have cheated and since you cannot take back cheating you will forever have cheated. So yes it is true.
But if you look at it the way everyone seems to deem it, I say that it is not true. People have affairs for various reasons, they are in abusive relationships, perhaps they have children and are scared to leave a relationship where love has died there are reasons that can be avoided in a good strong healthy relationship. So yeah, people who have cheated can change. In order to say they couldn't you change you would have to say they were inhuman. We are all capable of change, for better and for worse.
2006-08-15 09:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by thebramlett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for the most part its true and i always say that" once a cheater always a cheater" even though i have seen a couple people change so i guess there could be more out there that can change as well..they both changed cause they "fell in love with the one" so they say.
2006-08-15 09:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by tess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked this question before, and mostly everyone responded the same way that they are responding to you.
However I don't think that, that is always true, people make bad choices and mistakes sometimes. I believe their are some exceptions that sometimes once a cheater, and ONLY once.
2006-08-15 09:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Thandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False...I have been the cheater and I have been cheated on...but I really believe it depends on the situation and the person. I cheated on ex boyfriends, because they cheated on me....and I thought why should they have all the fun. I have been cheated on by my husband, but we are still together. Only because I think he was really sorry for what he did. He not only told me he was sorry, he also showed me that he was sorry. We talked about a lot of things.....and now we are happier than ever. So, like I said I think it really depends on the person, and if you think they are really sorry for what they did or if you know that they are just sorry for getting caught.
2006-08-15 09:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True if they remain in the same relationship in which they cheated, false if they have moved on to another relationship. Each relationship is unique and should be judged on its own and not by someones past relationship issues.
2006-08-15 09:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False. People can change. They can ask the Lord for forgiveness, and be forgiven, and move on to be a better person. However, I do think, once the person cheats on YOU, that you should be more careful trusting them. If someone cheated on me, I would forgive them, but I would have to break it off, that's just my opinion.
2006-08-15 09:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True
2006-08-15 09:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true, sometimes people do thing for no reason and regret it in the end....just because you cheat once doesn't mean you will continue to do it...especially if it's that perfect person your with and nothing can destroy it..so it is not true.....
2006-08-15 09:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
98 percent chance true. 2 percent false.
2006-08-16 08:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋