need help because this guy that lives next door to me is cute and hes nice.he waves at me when he sees me everyday but hes 18 and hes going to the school that i graduated at.and im too shy to talk to him cuz im afraid of rejection since im fat n ugly and i dont look that good and it sucks that looks matter but i want a guy that'll like me for me and i want this guy cuz he sounds like a sweet guy and im afraid that when he goes back to school he'll fall for another girl so plz help me im too shy to say something.and its hard for me to be myself around people because im scared that ppl arent going to like "ME" because im fat and i seriously am i weigh 300lbs and only 5'6 so im fat im not just saying that im for real.and i have crooked teeth too.and i need help cuz i want guys to like me and i want this one to like me too because of my personality not my looks but i dunno if hes the shallow type or not so can u guys please help me?? give me some advice on how to talk to guys
2006-08-15 09:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by tulsagrl18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he waves at everyone and not just me,if he kinda knows them he'll wave,if not then he wont
2006-08-15 09:24:53 · update #1
first of all with no selfconfidence you aint gonna get anywhere. look at the comedian Monique and look at Queen Latifa. their not skinny but are very beautiful woman who have confidance and that's what makes a woman beautiful is her confidence. so grab your b***s together and go talk to him. if he's selfcentered than you dont need him anyway.
2006-08-15 09:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, u're a chick, its guyz that r alwayz shy in terms of a relationship start up. Do u know wat? be brave, walk up to him n' say" I like u" u'll find out that he is much more shy than u think u are. Or, U'll invite him ova 4 a dinner or somthin, make sure u relate with him so that he'll open his heart 2 u. Then, boom! all u'll c is that u'll gain a kind of courage that u've neva felt before. I'll give u a STANDING GUARANTEE, If this works, praise urself, if it doesn't, make sure u HATE ME 4 LYF. Bye, Samuel.......
2006-08-15 09:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by chukzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't approach him directly by telling him you want him.
Start off by making conversation about the weather or simply ask him how his doing and the conversation will take its flow. If you never start off a conversation how will he notice you for your personality, don't wait to long or next time you see him outside will be with his new girlfriend .
Take a chance you don't loose anything.
2006-08-15 09:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he really does like you for who you are, he wouldn't think your "fat n ugly" I bet you aren't. If you want guys to like you, you can't stress out over what you look like, you won't get anywhere. If the guy won't date you because of your looks, you don't want to be with him! I would just go up, be nice, start a conversation, get to know him, and ask him if he wants to hang out. If it works, alright you got a nice guy. If not, there's more fish in the sea.
Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-15 09:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by ajmcleanrocksmysocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 big run-on sentence
#2 if u have to change for a guy, hes not worth it
#3 love who u r
#4 just be bluntly honest with him, tell him u like him!
#5 if u are to shy, go with the flow and tell him when u feel ready
#6 oh...what the hay...just go talk to him as friends and ask him if he wants to do something, as friends.
#6 worked for me and my bf!!
2006-08-15 09:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Christina G ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read the details, but here's what you do. Sneak up behind a guy you like, and clock him in the head with a frying pan. Have plenty of duct tape and/or rope handy. Voila! Boyfriend-a-rama!
2006-08-15 09:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not about how you look it is about what is on the inside of you that matters. so the next time he waves @ you start a conversation! don't be shy and keep your head up girlfriend!
2006-08-15 09:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably already interested... Otherwise, instead of waving, he'd be ignoring you... Try to strike up a conversation... He's probably shy as well...
2006-08-15 09:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to kno some not so shy ppl.
2006-08-15 09:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by ESTHER'D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋