2006-08-15 09:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by bakbiter 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Its probably your background. But, try to break free from you. Go to the mirror. Build your confidence that way but not looking at your flaws. Like for example, if you have a cute nose, look at it and cute big checks. Get your girls and have a nite out and let one of them do your hair, let her color it. Something different, like streaks. Let another girl do your make up and and another girl your feet. Like a pedicure. Then go out to dinner at the city or town and then watch a chick flick, and eat some snacks. That always helps me.
2006-08-15 09:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that you CAN help it but it just takes a lot of work. You need to work on ways to get outside of yourself and be more self confident.
This is a terrific site that gives practical tips on self-confidence, take a look at it.
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/self_confidence_tips.htm
Self consciousness is a type of anxiety and a lack of self confidence but with practice you can improve your life.
Take care and good luck
2006-08-15 16:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by mountaingirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self-esteem. See a psychologist. Some churches have services. The county may also have a program that can help you.
Pick up a new hobby, or learn to play a new instrument.
2006-08-15 16:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by robertcarbon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, it's not the way we are. It's how we've learned to be. self conciousness is a learned behavior. Maybe something happened in your past that someone did some kind of psychological/emotional harm to you. From then on, you probably think you are not good enough, you start to think that something is wrong with you. but your not alone. there's lots of people that feel the same way you do. so be possitive. i'm sure your alright.
2006-08-15 16:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im self-concious bc i think i am SO fat. i think once u
START being self-concious its really hard to stop. take a picture of urself and point out all the things u like about urself and then just ignore the bad, nobody is perfect.
2006-08-15 16:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why you're so self-conscious. maybe it's that god awful picture you got posted.
2006-08-19 16:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by keepingitreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am, too. because of anxiety. you CAN help it. face your fear and self-consciousness and change how you think of yourself. you can do it.
2006-08-15 20:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am too, its just the way we are
2006-08-15 16:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by vicky l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute kid
2006-08-15 16:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋